recently,an old friend of mine has been sending lewd pictures to my mail box.We were good friends though he wanted more than that before we both got married.i never had anything to do with him sexually or emotionally but now he sends pictures of naked women to my mail box.i dont understand what this is about.i've told him to stop but he has refused to and has ignored me.i cant tell my husband cos he might not understand.what message is he trying to send accross to me and what do i do
2007-02-08 06:23:33 · 9 answers · asked by sharonz 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Most email programs have a "filter" built into them that you can program to send emails from individuals you flag, straight to the delete bin.
If this dude won't stop, then perhaps this is the answer for you!
Good Luck!
Aloha!!
2007-02-08 06:29:03 · answer #1 · answered by gabriel_demus 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Simply create a new email address and don't tell him. You are going to want to destroy the old address (including cache, history, in box, outbox, trash, drafts, templates) and make sure it's gone forever (never revisit or reactivate it). These things have a way of surfacing at a later date. It will be worse if the hubby finds out 6 months later and you are still dealing with this other guy.
If you want to fight fire with fire, get his wife's email address and start forwarding the messages (with his email address as the original sender) he sends to you, to her, and copy him on the emails. Threaten him once, then actually do it.
If I found out my wife was receiving those pictures from an ex acquantince, I would be livid and on the war path.
2007-02-08 06:42:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you need to tell your husband that this is going on. It worries me when wives and husbands say that about each other....you wouldn't like it at all if you found out later that someone was spending time sending your man pics like that and secondly you need to let this guy know that upon receipt of one more picture, he not only lost the opportunity to communicate with you thru e-mail but that he lost a friend. You need to tell him that you are serious and that you will NOT stand for this kind of treatment. Tell him that they disgust you and that you are in love with your husband and that whatever the reason, his behavior will not be accepted then follow thru with that.
2007-02-08 06:38:31 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time to block him from sending you emails. A friend who sends this sort of stuff even when asked not to is no friend any longer. Block the boob.
2007-02-08 06:30:08 · answer #4 · answered by notfreeinnh 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In this case I would let hubby know. Because what is there really to understand or make excuses for this "friends'' behavior?
Also let his wife know what he is doing with his spare time.
2007-02-08 06:38:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably that he is turning u on with them or that he think of you in that way. I would put him on an ignore list.
2007-02-08 06:26:54 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relegate him to your spam box.
2007-02-08 07:12:08 · answer #7 · answered by finished 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why bother to waste your time wondering why.....report him to his ip or better yet just block him from your e-mail.
2007-02-08 06:27:49 · answer #8 · answered by chris m 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
forward his emails to his wife
2007-02-08 06:27:50 · answer #9 · answered by Untouchable2 1 · 3⤊ 0⤋