men and cheating?

Question

Someone told me that ANY man even a happily married guy would cheat given the oppurtunity? agree or disagree..I agree cause if the same woman keeps throwing herself at him he will eventually give in to her. Everybody knows how men are.

Answer 1

Totally agree..and all the guys that say they are moral and never cheat are full of crap!

Answer 2

That's really a loaded question. The answer is most, but not all men will cheat given the right circumstances.. Does he have a history with this woman? Even a long standing friendship can lead to dangerous events. Friendships can be confused for deeper emotions, and can lead to him cheating. Not that men and women cant be friends, but you have to look at how CLOSE they are. If this makes you nervous, talk to him. Having him clear the air with her now can avoid later confusion which could lead him to go astray. Also he's the only person who can tell this girl she's out of line, and end the problem there. Good luck

Answer 3

In the 25 years that my husband and I have been together, practically every woman I know (including my best friend and at least 2 of my 3 oldest sisters) have propositioned him on a regular basis. Women have literally decked him for turning them down. He has never cheated like that.

Women and men both have needs. Women need to feel loved and appreciated - men need that too, but even more, they need sex. It's a fact of life that most of them are actually driven by that need - which is what makes MEN the weaker sex, btw. (No disrespect intended.) A happily married man will not LOOK for the opportunity to cheat, but if the marriage relationship isn't nurtured and given the priority it deserves, it sure opens the door and invites trouble. God first, marriage second, family third.

Answer 4

These are overly simplistic views and are not true in general. As a matter of fact a guy can be very turned off if a woman throws herself at him. Men will talk like they will cheat given the right opportunity but I think you would be surprised how many would walk away rather than damage their own reputations. Nobody takes cheating lightly.

Answer 5

Actually while the urge might be there those men who have a healthy and happy relationship with their spouse will not stay stray. Some studies show that the actual split between women who cheat and men who cheat is close to 50/50 if not more in the female corner. Men, however, are more likely to be caught.

Answer 6

I read an article once that said 80% of married men surveyed admitted to cheating on their wives and 60% of the wives admitted cheating in an anonymous survey.

I would have to disagree with you. I think there are men out there that don't cheat. I've had friends tell me that they knew guys in Iraq for a year that did not cheat on their wives, and I've known wives that started cheating right after their husbands left to Iraq sadly enough.

Answer 7

i am going though something in my marriage right now so i have been doing so reseach and came up with this so far women give sex to get loved men give love to get sex a men will see absolutely nothing wrong in developing a realtionship with a womenas long as it doesn't become physical
marriage needs constant and attentive nurturing by all means enjoy a drink with friends after work chat about the lastestblockbuster but... if you vaue the person you have promised to cherish until death parts you make sure it is into their ear and their ear only that you whisper those sweet nothings

Answer 8

DISAGREE!

Even if a women (beautiful or ugly) were to get buck naked in front of me and spread like locks and start doing naughty things to herself, I still would do it.

Not all men. All men that care about their wife would not do it, even for a few minutes pleasure. Some guys can. I couldn't look my wife in the eye after deing dishonest to her.

Ask they guys that say they could, how they would feel if the found out their wife was with another man.

Answer 9

that someone needs to get out more. if someone is happily married, why in the blue heck would they even think about cheating on their wife?! lol....everyone knows how men are; ARE YOU KIDDING ME? Not all men are horndogs that have to wet their wistle every 7 seconds. Some men, once they get into a relationship, remain committed. Whichever girl keeps throwing themselves at a man in hopes the man will seduce her is simply a stupid trailer trash slut.

Answer 10

I completely agree...this happened to my hubby. He was on the Gulf Coast working after Katrina, 700 miles away from home and miserable. A whore he worked with kept coming on to him and he kept telling her he was married ( witnesses have confirmed this) and after a couple of months he went out to a local bar with the other guys staying at the house they were in and she was there. Well you can guess what happened. He got drunk...she flaunted the free p*ssy and he went for it. Some women are just good for nothing whores and homewreckers. Thats 700 miles I will be driving one day before I leave this place called earth just to beat the holy **** out of her!!!!!!!!

Answer 11

It really depends on how emotionally, psychologically, and morally weak a person is.

Male OR female, if a person is feeling down, has just had a fight with his/her significant other, has had too much to drink, is feeling lonely, is far from home, or just isn't thinking, that person can have a weak moment. The best simply overcome it.

I'm not saying it would be RIGHT if a person has sex outside of a relationship, I'm just saying that its possible for ANYONE to do it and it's also possible for EVERYONE to walk away.