My best friend and I (opposite sex) have kissed each other on the lips. While I am happily engaged, I'm not sure if this is okay. There is no sexual attraction between the two of us whatsoever and neither of us see the potential of a sexual/dating relationship. We just wanted a way to express our love towards each other (which is more like family than a boyfriend/girlfriend). Is it considered cheating since it was only intended as a friendship kiss and there is no intention of going beyond that?
2007-02-08 06:08:54 · 13 answers · asked by Us T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
i think thatd fine- but would your partner see it like that. Also, if its strictly platonic, then why are you even asking- seems like you feel guilty? Do you really need approval from a bunch of randoms? You need to question your own motives.
2007-02-08 06:13:07 · answer #1 · answered by macy411 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I kissed my best friend on the lips when I was five (opposite sex) now fifty-five years two wives six children and soon to be six grand children later we still kiss on the lips.
Like you she was always there to talk to; I knew all about her boyfriends and she knew about my girlfriends.
Verbally we were very intimate, and we were always there to comfort each other; but and that is a big but, we knew being together wouldn't work.
I think she knows more about me than both my wives put together, and I know more about her than all three of her husbands.
We are both single now, but our friendship has not changed. we are still there for each other; so if you and your friend are that close hang on to them even if the kisses affect others.
Really good friends are hard to come by male or female, always keep them close.
Daddy Dave.
2007-02-09 02:46:05 · answer #2 · answered by Daddy Dave 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you would kiss in front of your partner, then it is okay. If you are not comfortable doing it while your fiance' is around, then you already know it is wrong. If this is really your best friend, then they will understand that kissing is not acceptable to respect your fiance'.
2007-02-08 06:38:08 · answer #3 · answered by YinYang24 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it isn't. That's where it all starts... a little kiss... to a little touch ... then a little sex... then heartache. It's not cheating, however I would take it to the grave. Some men/women take that seriously. Just don't do it EVER AGAIN. Promise me.
2007-02-08 06:13:42 · answer #4 · answered by NicOOd 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think I would like it if my bf did this to me but it all depends on how your bf sees your relationship with your friend. If he is usually jealous about your friend then I don't think it would be right to do it again. I'm sure you both know how much you mean to one another without having to kiss one another to prove it.
2007-02-08 08:43:49 · answer #5 · answered by vikky t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say tht if you dont have feelings 4 eachother then y not, but ur partner may not agree, i think it may be best if you stick to kisses on the cheek. has someone said sumthin 2 you to make you question this or are you startin to have feelins????
2007-02-11 08:35:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously since you felt wierd about it you feel guilty...but here's a question for you how would you feel about your fiance kissing his "best friend" whom he thinks of as a sister?
maybe this will answer your question?
2007-02-08 06:16:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeh..... but you know your fionce should also be like a best friend to. and to me their is now way i would exsept what you did if i was your fionce(same difference ......duhhh). mabe you and your best friend love eachother and need some time to think about this to see truely who you want to be with......♥
GOOD LUCK♥
2007-02-08 06:30:15 · answer #8 · answered by .:{LyNdZ-aY Lo0}:. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it is absolutely acceptable and understandable. but for myself, if i had a wife, i would not tolerate it if she kiss another man or even hug another man or even shake another mans hand
2007-02-08 06:14:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think it is.. i do the same thing.. did you tell your partner about it..
2007-02-08 06:17:12 · answer #10 · answered by JOHN F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋