I want a baby?

Question

I'm 14 and i want a baby.
I need a boyfriend.
I will trick him.
Any ideas.

Answer 1

Grow up.
Get an Education.
Get a job.
Live a little.
Find a Man (not a boy) when you are a woman (not a girl).
Have a child that you can love and provide for who is wanted by both parents and can live in a loving home.

*What a tangled web we weave, when first we practice to deceive.*

Answer 2

You are so very young you should not be wanting this at all, if i were to give you ideas on how to trick a young lad then i and everybody else on here would be very irrisponsible.

Think about you future for a minuite, you need to get some qulifications behind you and some money, plus a boyfreind that will be able to support you and the baby, what you are saying is sounding very immature and will say that is purly because of you age.

I am not going to deny i felt just like you at 14, did you know what i did i got one of tose dolls that looked like real babys and pretended to nurture it i even went out and got proper baby clothes for her when i felt the need to have a baby i went and picked up my little emily and beagn to be her mummy for an hour or 2 you may think that this is very immature but not half as much as what you are thinking.

I swear give it a go i absolutley love the doll and she was specially made she has weights in her head and it needed supporting, she had speacal wieght in her body she weighed just 6lb, she had a magnet in her mouth so i could pit a dummy in it, her toenails had white tips on the end and her skin looked so real, she actually smelt of a real baby too.

Just take your time, everything will happen to you at the right time and you having a baby now is certainly not a good idea.

Hope this helps x x

Answer 3

I am 23 years old and have a 3 year old and another one anyday. At your age having a baby would not be right. How do you plan on supporting your baby? How are you going to work and pay childcare. What happens when they grow up and want to do gymanastics or swimming or whatever it all costs money. And tricking somebody is just wrong. What you want know might not be what you want later. are you ready to give up going out with your friends, sleeping at night, having really any sense of a life. not to get me wrong I love being a mother and i have found a happy balance in life but i have a great fiance and his a good father and supporting family and friends. I also got my grade 12 diploma and college before getting pregnant. So really think things through before making a rash decision, it not only will affect you but the man and your child if you had one.

Answer 4

I know you think it would be so much fun to have a baby right now, and I am sure you want the babies daddy to be there for you and you guys will be a family, but you have to realize that it doesn't usually work out that way. You need to finish school and get it together or you are going to mess up both you and the babies lives. Child are VERY hard work. You don't get any sleep, you don't get to go out and have fun with your friends. I don't think people realize what they are getting into. My advise is to wait. All of these people with experience have told you that it is not a good idea, I would listen. Honestly, I know it's hard if it is what you really want, but you should wait until you can actually give a baby what they deserve in life. Otherwise it's not fair to the baby.

Answer 5

What I think you really need is to be loved, have hope, and have a purpose. I'm thinking that planning to get pregnant is currently giving you some kind of hope, and that's is a good feeling. from there you hope to have a healthy baby that you will love and will love you, (and maybe get lucky in love with the guy too). And not many people would argue that we have not much greater purpose than to raise our children. That said, I would implore you to find good older adult council in addition to any peer council you may have already received where you can truly and thoughtfully consider an alternative plan atleast for your immediate future. There are so many benefits to waiting and disadvantages to making a decision like this too early and I won't talk down to you by assuming you don't know what a lot of them already are. I'm just begging you to take a real long deeply thoughtful considerate look of whether there are other immediate plans that could bring you hope, and save these wonderful plans(when you won't have to trick the man who loves and wants to be with you and your children together always.) for the time in the future where your are more ready than you are now to insure that the many unnamed complications are a lot less likely to occur. Thanks for reading and I know many people who understand and care will hope you wait.

Answer 6

At 14 it is very difficult to carry a baby to term and even if you do there will be many complications. Besides you are too young. Having a baby is a big commitment. Finish high school and go to college before you have a baby. Most likely if you got pregnant the Father wouldn't want anything to do with the baby he would be no help to you. I suggest volunteering in a daycare or nursery during the summer or something like that.

Answer 7

Sorry, but you're really really really stupid. You need to get your head checked.
I'm 24 and have a 6 month old baby. Luckily I'm not on my own.
If you know anyone who has a newborn baby, look after it for a whole day. if it's anything like my daughter used to be, then that should put you off.
I had to stay up all day with her the first 2 month and most of the night. when my husband got home from work I sat there crying because i was sooooo tired.
Think about what you do with your life. and even more the poor babies. And wanting to trick someone!?!?!?! not really fair is it?

Answer 8

Having a child is a life long commitment. It is not a joke. It is not cute to be a teenage mother. To say that you will trick a man, shows your immaturity. Children need two parents. Yes, many people are raised in single-family homes and they turn out fine. Yet, it so much easier when you have two parents involved. How will you support the baby. You are not even old enough to get a job. You will be stuck in the house with a crying baby while everyone else your age is having fun. The money you would spend on yourself would have to go to the baby. You need to focus on being a child and furthering your education. Please reconsider you may not become pregnant, but catch a STD from unprotected sex. It only takes one time. Although some are treatable all of them are life changing.

Answer 9

I hope that this is a joke!
Babies are not toys and you should want the best for them to be in a happy stable relationship and have the means to keep them.
Finish school, get a job, get somewhere to live, have fun, travel and find a man you love then have a baby as a joint decision.
Its very hard to do any of the above with a small baby!
I really hope that you make the right choice!

Answer 10

I suggest, if this is real, that you spend 1 day taking care of a baby from morning till night, youll change your mind, as for tricking a boy...thats not funny, why would you ruin his life cause you think having a baby is fine at 14. You need to let yourself live first, experience life and then have a child. I have 3 boys and you have no idea how tiring it is.....and I am WAY past 14.