In a bad relation, with no love or desire or even respect left for the other part do to certain things, how do you brake up? If you are really sentimental, and have hard time to getting even the simplest task out of your hand? It is no mayor fighting. Just a longtime grey discontent.? //Thanks for your opinion
2007-02-08 05:16:55 · 19 answers · asked by AngelCat 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You make a decision and face the consequences. Life is hard, unpleasant tasks are hard, achieving goals is hard. Everyone has a hard time ending relationships.
2007-02-08 05:20:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok if you live with this guy it will definitely be hard to severe the ties, especially when it is so hard to let go. And if you don't live with this guy become less available it seems that you are available for him whenever he wants u to stop that. And just think about how happy u could be without him he seems to be stringin u along. Start to go out with friends, meet new people, start casually dating just enjoy yourself life is so short to be unhappy. So dont waste anymore time on this guy he'll be back but then u won't even want him anymore. Hope some of this helps i know its easier said than done.
2007-02-08 05:38:07 · answer #2 · answered by Sexy Sha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to be fair and kind, but firm!
You need to say the really reasons why the relationship must end, not go into things like "its me and not you" they are really hurtful and will not help the person to develop themselves.
It also needs to be done in a mutual place where no-one has the upper hand.
I am surprised that someone could be so un-interested in you!
You seem from your blog and your web site to be a very cute, funny and sensitive person with so much energy.
The person you are about to let go may not straight away realize what they have lost, but it will wake them at some point in their life and they will consider what they have done.
You can always contact me if you want someone to talk with!
God Bless you and I hope he brings you a smile and love
2007-02-08 05:27:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
first get sexually independent is what I always say. experiment.
Ask your self do I contract around my partner when we make love when I get off? If no then that is your problem. Men need to feel that contraction the stronger the better, and to feel your heart pounding on his chest.to know you are satisfied.
A lot of women don't know this and thus end up breaking up all the time. If you do ok in that department then it is all him. find some other partners no strings be independent and you'll attract partners you never dreamed you could ever have as your lover.
PS
play safe !
2007-02-11 10:12:10 · answer #4 · answered by Mijoecha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello, write a letter, read it the person and leave. Never come back into this person's life if that is your decision but explain your decision in your letter.
The reason why I suggest writing a letter is because you indicated that you are a really sentimental person; writing a letter will allow you to get everything you need to off your chest with no distractions or interupptions and it will also aid you in effectively closing this chapter of your life.
Hope this helps
good luck
2007-02-08 05:26:07 · answer #5 · answered by dymps 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I had the same problem atthe beginning...
Just tell yourself that if you don't break soon , it is going to get worse and will eventually become awful as a situation and you will have to break anyway but a messy break.
So just do it , explaining the other why it is not what you were expecting and it will be ok even if it can be hard to handle.
If you are seekin for real love, you have to find the one that will give to you what you are expecting, if you don't feel right so stop it !
2007-02-08 05:23:50 · answer #6 · answered by WonderingMind 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I had to break with someone I had no feelings for and it was still difficult because I didn't want to hurt the other person but I realized I couldn't continue this if I wasn't happy, maybe he was happy but I wasn't which was really sad. I didn't want to continue lieing or trying to love the other person. When I finally did break if off with him I just sat down with him and just straight up told him how it was and that I didn't want to hurt him but I think that he deserved someone that could be there for him 100%, but I guess there's never a good way to break up with someone but why keep continuing something that's fake! Just have to be straight up and say it!!!
2007-02-08 05:25:48 · answer #7 · answered by ♥AMO♥ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
relationships with someone are like a journey together. sometimes u pull the chain of the train and get down on the way. a journey which has no destination (like in ur case) must be taken to a beautiful turning point and be left.if u r sentimental then believe me it will be too painfull. if u want to avoid much pain then believe in my words as poison cures poison, iron cuts iron similarly one relationship can be forgotton upto a great extent by another similar relationship. for ex if u r brkng up with ur boyfriend have another one. u can share ur feelings with me to relax and feel cozy. trainerremaker@yahoo.com
2007-02-08 05:26:04 · answer #8 · answered by trainerremaker 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If there is no love, respect or desire you do not have a relationship. Let your partner know how you feel. Knowing this information would make or break the relationship without you doing much. Talk to your partner.
2007-02-08 05:22:19 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs. Morality 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its easy, just read all the excuses that women use to break up on this forum.
you can say:
We're not compatible
I need to findh myself
I'm not ready for a commitment
You get the idea. You can use any of these crappy lines to get out of anything these days, even marriage.
Good luck!
2007-02-08 05:21:27 · answer #10 · answered by Billy Bob D 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋