2007-02-08 04:54:15 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
I don't think it is a choice but I am sure that you used that word just to get a rise out of people.
2007-02-08 04:58:02 · answer #1 · answered by Karen 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nature chooses it, dearie. Just as heterosexuals were also born as they are. Being a lesbian is GREAT! We are having the best sex, the deepest love and the strongest connection. Lesbians have nothing to do with hatred for men. It is all about natural love for women.... AND to let the guys know that we eat 'kitty' better than they ever would.
2007-02-08 05:19:05 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's part of an ongoing debate. Whether people choose to like people of the same sex or are they born that way. That's a question that is opinion based and never will be a right answer. So why are you asking . . .
2007-02-08 04:59:26 · answer #3 · answered by flygurl_co_06 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They dont choose to be lesbians. What happens is since they are like 5 years of age they dont feel comfortable with who they are. So they were kind of born that way!!!!
2007-02-08 05:04:09 · answer #4 · answered by Bianca Z 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Firstly, for the most part you are born with your sexual preferences. I used to believe otherwise, but being old enough to watch more than a few kids grow up I have come to know that yes, most are in fact born that way.
However, there is a component of choice involved. For women the emotional support side of a relationship is much more important than the physical side, and yes, women do the emotional support thing better. So... in many cases they simply get more of what they need out of a relationship from women than they do from men.
2007-02-08 04:59:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why do people "choose" to be actors, model train enthusiasts, or good dancers? Because it's part of who they are. It's not a conscious, deliberate choice, like deciding what to have for lunch, weighing the pros and cons of each option. It's just being who you were meant to be, just like anything else.
2007-02-08 05:07:27 · answer #6 · answered by teresathegreat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody can chose to be a lesbian..you are either born that way or you're not. I am a gay man ---I could never chose to be a lesbian...that's about as ridiculous as saying a straight woman could.
2007-02-08 05:41:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We don't choose to be lesbians, it has nothing to do with men, it's just a sexual attraction between two people. It just happens, and it's great.
2007-02-08 04:59:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
They don't choose to be lesbians, they just choose to accept it. People are born with a sexual orientation. Choosing a sexual orientation would be absurd.
2007-02-08 06:39:26 · answer #9 · answered by Hmmm... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Becuase well for me I was just tired of the hard skin and all the lying and mess men put me through. I love women becuase they're sensitive and loving and caring. Not that women can't hurt u as much as men but it's just what I prefer.
2007-02-08 04:58:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋