I just realized this, 30 minutes ago, when I got too nervous to go up to a women in the streets of LA, before I got to work. She was so beautiful, but I was so nervous to approach her because I'm a stranger, and I didn't know what to say. I realized the key...and here it is:
Step 1: Glance at her with a smile on your face, and then look away.
Step 2: Ask a VERY RELEVANT question to the SETTING you are in. Example: see a HOT woman at a book store? Ask her "so, whatcha reading?". In the busy sidewalks of LA? So, what kind of work are you in?
Step 3: Ask her for her name. This is a personal thing, but not TOO personal. Now that you know her name, she can't just walk away.
Step 4: NUMB your mind to any type of rejection embarassment, etc. Use the 3 second rule (don't over think for more than 3 seconds), and then
Step 5: Ask her for lunch. Say: I have to get going pretty soon, but, I was wondering...you seem like a really sweet woman...wanna grab lunch sometime?
COMMENTS???
2007-02-08 04:48:22 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
(c) 2007 PB
2007-02-08 04:48:40 · update #1
what if they have mace?
2007-02-08 05:00:16 · answer #1 · answered by soulburner 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look you've posted this a couple of times, and i am trying to be nice. But reality is that if you walked up to me with that CRAP, i would spray Mace in your eyes and so would anyone I know. I am sorry, but women can spot a pick up from any direction. It wouldn't work, most women can tell in under 5 seconds if they want to go out with a guy or not. So to proceed to #2, would be useless unless she was interested.
2007-02-08 04:54:19 · answer #2 · answered by Charisma 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What to say isn't so much a problem. It's the actual walking up to the girl to initiate the conversation that's the giant leap of self-confidence.
2007-02-08 04:52:58 · answer #3 · answered by Gravity 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice approach, but I wouldn't call it the key, if you look like a goober I'll still say no. lol. She musta thought you were cute anyway.
2007-02-08 04:53:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eh...no use doing all that since probably at #1 you'd get slapped to death so.....
NEVER try these on a common latin girl (15-17)
2007-02-08 04:53:03 · answer #5 · answered by Wolf 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's hilarious! You can't pick up any woman you want with that! Are you out of your mind?
2007-02-08 04:52:12 · answer #6 · answered by Famous Amos {not the cookies} 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can say anything.... litterally ANYTHING, as long as you say it with confidence and conviction.
If she's into you, she's into you.
ex: you: "Excuse me", her: "yes?" you: "I'm standing her imaging way too much, what could I possibly do to make it a reality?"
Game, set, match... Just say it without cracking your voice and you'll be fine.
2007-02-08 04:56:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds good! Best of luck
2007-02-08 04:51:38 · answer #8 · answered by Jen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number four is really good. I would definitely keep that one in mind.
2007-02-08 04:52:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your an idiot. You dont need lines or gimmiks. Confidence will do just fine.
2007-02-08 04:52:16 · answer #10 · answered by Ryan W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing will work on everyone, so just relax and be yourself
2007-02-08 04:54:11 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋