My girlfriend is pregnant. Any tips?

Question

My lady is pregant and I need some tips on how to make her more comfortable. Or what are some nice things I could do for her? Only adult answers please

Answer 1

just be there, she will ask for so many outrageous things, and try and meet her demands, i know it sounds kind of selfish but pregnant women have it rough, and what they go through afterwards will make everything you did for nine months seem like nothing. I remeber asking my husband all the time to run out to the store and get pretzels or ice cream late at night, and he just did evertyhing for me no questions asked and no hesitation,. just love her and realize what a beautiful thing that is happening.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Hi,
When I was expecting my ltl fellow, I always expect my hubby to understand me. It really hurt me when he got ltl much of angry over me. Surprisingly, ltl one also didn't like it. Now she is 11mnt old and still doesn’t like to see me crying. If that's bcoz of her farther, she doesn’t want to stay even near to him.
There are lots of thing that a papa should do for his baby even before come to this world. You might be know sometimes, that a baby could here us and could even understand mama's feelings. So if you always show your love to your lady and the baby, kiss and hug her and tell that you'll always be there for mama and the baby.. that'll the most important thing to make both comfortable, I think. Coz, we can’t avoid any physical pains and other uncomfotables but the making her psychologically comfortable is definitely can do.
And for some other physical stuff – Make her walk few mints every day to make the delivery easy, and also walking in a beach is good for the feet. Also if she can listen to the soft music it’ll be good for the baby. As I am a Buddhist I played a Buddhist prayer CD most of the nights.
Hope, at least a small piece of this would help to fulfill your expecting.
Wish u both good luck and a wonderful baby.
Take care of u and the mother.

Answer 4

What to do/not do: Don't think you can play be the same rules. pretend it's a 9 month period and walk on eggshells. In other words be extra sensitive. Pay particular attention to her often unspoken needs. NO fat jokes! Let her know (and show her) how she still does it for you. Pretend like you are trying to impress her without being a dork. Give her space to de-stress, but don't stray far. Make sure you regularly sacrifice your desires. example: the guys want to go out sat night, she says, it's o.k. hunny, go ahead. STAY HOME! That will win you a lot of points and save a lot of grief. Im not saying never go out, but make sure she can clearly see that you consistently prioritize her, and your new and upcoming family. Women need to feel secure. Emotionally, Physically, Financially, etc. Much more could be said, but if you really care that will guide you. Good Luck!

Answer 5

Be Patient. IF this is ur first child it will be a long ride but worth the trip. She will blame you for things you have no control over but its hormones.She might ask you to do unreasonable things like be at her becking call... Just do it.. Pregnancy is less than a year of ur life...Go ahead and just let her have her way.... Once the baby comes she will forget about her needs.

Buy her some comfy pjs-
Any Pillows for back support
Vitamin E for sore nipples and stretch marks
anything else she wants

Answer 6

Do things to help out around the house. Take her out to dinner, but be sensitive to the fact that there are probably things she can't handle the taste/smell of. Show interest in the planning/preparation for Baby. When she's looking at strollers or baby tubs and asks you your opinion, actually look and give her an honest answer. Rubbing her feet and back always earn brownie points. If you're not good at either of those, get her a certificate for a massage at a local spa.
When my mom was pregnant with me, my dad used to paint her toenails because she couldn't reach them. I always thought that was cute.

Answer 7

Well anything...

Spend time with her.
Discuss the baby and future family.

Pregnant women are very emotional and anything that upsets her will be like twenty million times worse while pregnant.

Try to be there for her support her.
And realize how much work it is to carry a child.
If she is tired let her sleep.
If she is craving something well go get it.
Put her and the new baby first.
Go to the dr appts with her.
Pick out baby stuff to gether.

As long as you put her first and support her you will be alright.

Answer 8

Say to her,"I just want you to know that I am here for you and if there is anything I can do to make this whole thing easier on you just let me know." Also, make sure she has lots of pillows, and fans in the bedroom. Trying to sleep while you are pregnant is the pits.

Answer 9

I think pregnant women are most reponsive to a partner who helps her out around the house and in discussing the new baby. Pregnant women get stressed out and tired, helping her out shows her you care. It's not fun or flashy but it's got teeth. Women also want to know you're excited and involved in planning for the new one. Try registering the two of you at Babies R Us or something.
You can also take her out, that's always fun, and it means no cooking!

Answer 10

try to do nice things for her...chip in more around the house....BUT beware, do it in a way that doesn't make her feel incompetent!! or that somehow just because she is pregnant she is suddenly helpless...some women are VERY sensitive to that. run a few errands for her, give her massages. encourage her to pamper herself. go with her to her ob appointments, show support. go and get her any crazy food she craves...but most of all, do it because you WANT to, if you do it begrudgingly it;s better that you don't at all! congrats! and good luck