I want to marry the father of the child that I am expecting....only he hasn't asked me yet....I want more than anything for us to be married. So you think that I should ask him to marry me?
2007-02-08 04:32:26 · 10 answers · asked by Bel 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes.
2007-02-08 04:36:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would ask this guy point blank if he plans on marrying the mother of his child? And I would be PISSED that he hasn't asked you already. No offense, but you are a classic example of what happens when people do things bass-ackwards. I could have sworn you were supposed to meet, fall in love, get married, and THEN have children! But it sounds like you guys are part of the growing number of people who meet, have sex, get pregnant, and then aren't sure if they love each other enough to get married! I sincerely hope that things work out for the three of you. This country already has enough single parents and children growing up with issues as a result of it.
2007-02-08 13:05:24 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He hasn't asked you because maybe he doesn't want to marry you! Just be patient and concentrate on your upcoming new baby and take it from there! Don't ask him because I don't think he wants to get married and if you ask he might tell you no and that would suck! just go with the flow...
2007-02-08 12:38:47 · answer #3 · answered by ♥AMO♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bring it up to him and see what he says... Do you love and want to marry him for the right reasons or is it because you are pregnant? If it is only because you are pregnant this is not the right reason to get married.
2007-02-08 12:43:45 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Remind him that if he was just having Sex, with you. That you're not gonna be his Lover. If he was "Making Love" to you? he needs to show his Love. And except that this Gift is for the Both of you. Congrats! I'm a Grandparent. And you're in for the Life that is gonna be unbelievable!
2007-02-08 12:38:04 · answer #5 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, sorry I have traditional ideas on that sort of thing, and if he hasn't asked, maybe he isn't ready or is contemplating how. Give it some time, see how it goes
2007-02-08 12:36:05 · answer #6 · answered by Cute Stuff 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you talk to him and tell him how you feel about it. He will then be able to ask you if that's what he wants to do.
2007-02-08 12:42:53 · answer #7 · answered by mayihelpyou 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a real shame that this is so common these days.
I feel sorry for your child.
2007-02-08 12:47:10 · answer #8 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes these days it is accetable at least you can find out what his intentions are
2007-02-08 12:39:53 · answer #9 · answered by ariesfunram 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At this point what do you have to loose.
2007-02-08 13:03:54 · answer #10 · answered by aelenaj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋