ok im 16 years old and my best friends name is chris..... a few months ago i was in a rehab center and just got out about 3 weeks ago...well when i got to talk to my best friend for the first time in 3 months...well after that he handed me a notebook that he wrote every day since i was gone and he told me he had feelings for me.... i didnt know how to respond so i didnt i mean hes my best friend and only my best friend but it was way shockin when i found out its like 1 minute i was his best friend then next thing you know hes tellin me how much he loves me i mean i dont know its just hard and i told him i was sorry but i dont know if i was right or wrong you know on top of that i was just coming out of rehab it was just really shocking to come home to that
2007-02-08 04:23:54 · 10 answers · asked by broken hearted 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
The best thing to do is tell Chris that you're flattered that he loves you this much, but you see him as your best friend and nothing more. I'm sure he missed you like crazy, but truthfully, he should have waited until you had a chance to get settled before springing this on you. His timing was off, but don't fault him for that. Love makes people do crazy things. I wish you the best in all you do, and many blessings.
2007-02-08 04:58:02 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle T 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They say that getting into a relationship after rehab you should wait about a year. To substitute for this you should get a plant to care for and maybe a pet. If you are serious about changing whatever reason you went to rehab, I'm guessing drugs or alcohol, you need to remember to keep your life as simple as possible. Since the two of you are already good friends, then explain that a relationship would be hard for you right now. Ask him to remain as your friend and see what evolves in the future as your relationship grows. If he is really in love with you, he should understand how you feel and it will be okay with him. Getting your life back on track should be your primary concern right now. You can add more later.
2007-02-08 04:39:10 · answer #2 · answered by froggsfriend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that at this time, getting out of rehab and all, you need a best friend more than a boyfriend right now. If he is truly your best friend, he will back off for a little while. However, if you start dating other guys, do not expect him to stick around.
2007-02-08 04:34:42 · answer #3 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-17 06:02:43 · answer #4 · answered by branaugh 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the notebook was right he was expressing self the best way he knew how. he let you know what he discovered while you were gone even if you dont feel the same that was a very inteligent thing for him to do, if you dont feel the same way then you need to sit and tell him how you feel who knows you may start feelin the same way down the line if anything you two can continue to be freinds. good luck!
2007-02-08 04:38:54 · answer #5 · answered by Elizabeth Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him how you feel. Do you like him, or do you just want him as a friend? And somthing exists to seperate sentances. Its called a period. Not trying to be mean, but it will be much easier to read if you add some. :)
2007-02-08 04:37:20 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Allright, I have also faced such situation some time back.
My friend let me tell you....... its right that its hard. But if dont clear up the things to him , you will face even more problems.
So go and think that do you like him that way.........?
If not them gently say it to him saying that being a best friend you hope him to understand you...............
2007-02-08 04:39:49 · answer #7 · answered by nextgenerationy2k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well what do you feel about him? can you see spending the rest of your life with him? I think its really sweet what he did for you, and obviously he cares for you alot! tell him what you think, and hopefully yall will make it out for the better (whether in a relationship or not)
hope it all goes awesome!
2007-02-08 04:30:06 · answer #8 · answered by Jewls 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you like him tell him.
but either way you have
to tell him how you feel,.
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2007-02-08 04:27:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
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2007-02-08 04:28:40 · answer #10 · answered by Emo_Gurl™ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋