I have a crush on one of my friends at school, but the real problem is that she is dating someone who when around his friends ignores her. I don't think it's right. She has confided in me that she thinks he is cheating on her, and I think he is. All of her close girl friends are the ones telling her that they think he is cheating on her too. I don't know what to do. I want to wait till she breaks up with him, but I also want to stop her from getting hurt. What should I do??
2007-02-08 04:21:22 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
aww this is a tough one. but i dont think u can prevent her from getting hurt this time. if she thinks that she is being cheated on and she still decides to stay thats on her. she's kind of setting herself up to get hurt. all you can do is be there for her when she does get hurt. and be her shoulder that she cries on. does she know you like her? if she doesn't...let her know, if u dont want to tell her outright, then flirt with her a little ;o)
2007-02-08 04:26:35 · answer #1 · answered by rramkay01 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her that u think he's cheating and maybe have some of her friends give her the confidence to drop him first b/4 he really hurts her... then when the time is right ( after they are thru) you tell her that it was Your idea for her to drop him b/c u didnt waht to see her get hurt. No girl deserves to be cheated on and if every guy had a heart like yours, then every girl would be as happy as they can be! If you have the confidence then she can have some too!! >>good luck!<
2007-02-08 12:28:53 · answer #2 · answered by goddess♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He may be cheating but for sure, he's showing her disrespect when he ignores her around his friends. All you can do is be a good listener and try to keep being friends with her for now. When the time is right, make your move and ask her out.
2007-02-08 12:42:34 · answer #3 · answered by froggsfriend 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What I think you should do is to stop it because if she is really hurt then she might not want to go out with anybody for a long time and if you are a true mate then you would stick up for her and not watch her get hurt then after a couple of weeks make your move.xx
2007-02-08 12:25:56 · answer #4 · answered by Flick 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm....well it sounds like you might be the runner up for that jerk! once he's outta here, i'm pretty sure she'll go for you. so thats good. I think you should wait for her to break up with him, but watch his every move, if he seems a little sketchy or fishy about something, let her know. And be like "dude...your friends are right. he's a skeezebag" except dont say dude, lol.
2007-02-08 12:52:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be her friend. Sounds like she needs one. You can't live someone's life for them but you can support them (ie can't stop her from getting hurt). If you let her see you for the caring friend that you seem to be, you may get lucky and her feelings may develop in something more romantic.
2007-02-08 12:28:29 · answer #6 · answered by Liz 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should wait until the breakup. It would not be appropriate to tell her when she is in a relationship with another guy. It appears you won't have to wait long.
2007-02-08 12:31:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want to be Mr. Rebound, but sometimes people find it easy to transition to a new love.
As long as she knows how you feel, you are good. Just be patient, and don't rush it.
2007-02-08 12:29:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let her be, she has to figure it out for herself. But it would kill any chances for you, it may hurt her and she may not want to have a relationship afterwards. Just be there for her and let her know that.
2007-02-08 12:25:40 · answer #9 · answered by Janine 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sit tight. The end is probably near, just don't be her rebound. Be her friend now, but make your feelings know, now.
2007-02-08 12:25:03 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋