(or at least without getting h*rny IMMEDIATELY. I mean, can't we snuggle some first before you go straight for the kitty!)
2007-02-08 04:20:51 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Woman's view: I am sincerely enjoying this cuddle. It warms my heart, relaxes me and puts me at ease. I need this. It feels so good to be hugged and close to the man I love. I feel safe, secure and loved.
Man's view: You know, I bet she would be more peaceful after an orgasm. I know I would be. What on Earth is she waiting for? Stupid mixed signals...cuddle up close pressing her curves against me and then...well, nothing. Except this funny smile and soft cooing. I can't believe how poorly Rex Grossman did in the Superbowl. What a loser. I wonder what I missing on TV. I'm kinda hungry too. Can we have sex now?
2007-02-08 04:48:48 · answer #1 · answered by jw 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
They say men think about sex every so many seconds add cuddling and well ....there you go
Women are have more emotions as far as sex
Alot of men will cuddle and play before just going straight to it....
gotta find the right guy or at least one who will listen
2007-02-08 04:36:02 · answer #2 · answered by dreamingone39 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The answer is so simple dear. It's the hormon thing. We got those wild hormons and we can't help it that God gave them to us. You want to cuddle and snuggle??? Get yourself a teddy bear. You want to romp???we can jump right on that kitty. Men and hornyism go hand in hand. We are lustful horny animals because God made us that way.
2007-02-08 04:30:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
He doesn't know how to treat a woman.
Some are worth training - others never get it.
Either set up a reward system- the slower he goes, the more oral you give him, or find someone who knows how to warm up the female engine. Quite a few of us do, you know.
2007-02-08 04:29:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Maybe your man can't... Mine does it all the time. We snuggle every night before going to sleep... but only get "freaky" maybe once a month.
2007-02-08 04:40:52 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
ha thats me. i don't know why. maybe being told no so many times no you tend to be ready all the time. cause this time might be IT. woo hooo lets get it on then all of of sudden, slam, the door shuts, light off and the Washington monument is under the covers.
2007-02-08 04:31:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Nature has made men and women differently. Women like to be cuddled, men dont, not before, nor after
2007-02-08 04:26:31 · answer #7 · answered by mamakumar 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
not sure but my man can cuddle without getting horny. i'm the one that gets horny and want him to go for the kitty!
2007-02-08 04:43:01 · answer #8 · answered by Taylor 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you women would stop looking as sexy as you all do and stop giving it too us the way you do then we would not be as horny all the time. It's like putting a kid in a toy shop and teling him not to touch or play with any of the toys
2007-02-08 04:45:52 · answer #9 · answered by dave6035 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋
They can't help it. It's in their genetic programming. You have to train them to cuddle first, but they can't help it if the ole boy gets happy right away..cut 'em some slack.
2007-02-08 04:25:26 · answer #10 · answered by a_lot_smarter_now 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋