My bestfriend and i are no longer "best friends". I don`t know why. Last week, she just stopped talking to me and ever since then she hasnt said a word to me. I know i did not do anything to get her mad because the day before she stopped talking to me she seemed so happy when we were hanging out. Im kind of ashamed because im pretty much the only person who has been there for her, helped her whenever she had a problem, talked to her when she needed someone to listen to her. Now she wont even look at me, or come near me. Do i even bother trying to talk to her, or just let it go?
2007-02-08 04:11:14 · 9 answers · asked by asdfghjkl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
There has to be a reason for her to stop talking. No one does that without a reason.
Ask her what the reason might be. If she doesn't tell you, or if you don't like what she said, then let her go. But, at least try to get things straight.
2007-02-08 05:03:23 · answer #1 · answered by kiwi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry about it she is acting childish, and i dont know about you but i would not have time for little games. Everything else in life is a "game" and you should not have to take it from a bestfriend. I would say just leave her alone and when/if she gets over it and tries to talk to you, talk to her and ask her what's up? If she does not get over it then brush it off.
2007-02-08 04:23:38 · answer #2 · answered by CurlySue 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I wish you would have stated your age. If you are absolutely sure you did nothing to her, then maybe her not speaking to you is a sign of quilt on her part--what did she do that she betrayed you with? If there really is nothing, call her and hash it out. If she chooses not to speak to you, after you have been a good friend, then it is her loss. I know it hurts, but life is full of hurts , you will make new friends and life will go on.
2007-02-08 04:27:07 · answer #3 · answered by vivib 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's probably confused...give her the space she seems to be claiming and tell her you'll be there for her whenever she's ready to talk and that you care about her. "bestfriends" dont just end like that, there are ups and downs, besides it takes two people to be best friends...do your part-the rest is on her shoulders
2007-02-08 04:28:41 · answer #4 · answered by MrMeT00 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you must talk to her and discover what is happening because if you don't you will always think about it and how would it be if you talked to her. and finally she's you're best freind and you 2 deserve to have a chance to recover your freindship
2007-02-08 04:25:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to talk to her, ask her what was the cause of the problem between you two... Will you just allow your friendship to end like that? you have to do something to bring your friendship back to normal...
good luck!
2007-02-08 04:19:16 · answer #6 · answered by tinkerbel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let it go shes not much of a Friend
2007-02-08 04:18:14 · answer #7 · answered by wrfab 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
♥ i lost my best-friend too ♥
♥ but I moved on she was ♥
♥ acting different so I left.. ♥
♥ But still talk to her.I do!! ♥
2007-02-08 04:17:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
just try asking her whats wrong and if she doesnt tell you then let it go
2007-02-08 04:31:46 · answer #9 · answered by *_~♦~_* 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋