for me is not problem our diferent of age but my friends keep saying that why I married him and t
at he is too old for me, and saying that I'm out of my mind and things, just now we will have a baby for this year, but some of my friends still annoying even now we having a baby, they still no accept he, I am 20 and he is 34, of course he was never married or got any children and looks younger too, what do u think?
2007-02-08 03:46:12 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I'm 13 years older than my wife. Age is not a factor here and don't give in to your friends' feelings about this. It is YOU who knows your feelings for him, not your friends. Tell them to mind their own business, you are happy.
My wife and I are a little older than you. I am 58, my wife is 45. It doesn't bother us in the least about the age gap. We are on the same emotional level and that makes it OK.
Tell your friends to grow up and see the real world. If they want someone who is the same age as them, no problem. But it isn't their problem or concern that you and your husband have this age difference. Tell them you won't bother them if they don't bother you. Butt out!
2007-02-08 03:58:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's your life. 14 years isn't that big of an age difference. My sister married a man that was 16 or 17 years older than her and they don't have any problems. It's your life if you love him just tell your friends to back off. At least at the age of 34 he should be mature enough to know what love is.
2007-02-08 11:57:22 · answer #2 · answered by precious1too 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can relate homie! I'm 20 an my fiancee just turned 35 this January. Before me and him got together i dated a guy that was 16 years older than me. I mean my family and Friends always tell me that i should date guys my own age but guys my age are so immature and are unable to offer me the things i have found in dating older men, and I'm not just talking about money. Bottom line is live your life honey for you and no one else! And congratulations on the baby!
2007-02-08 11:57:27 · answer #3 · answered by felita2004 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should ignore what everyone else says or thinks. If you're happy, then that's it. They aren't married to him, you are =) I'm with someone who's nine years older than me and I love it and I love him! It makes a HUGE difference to be with someone older than you. They're more experienced in life, worldly, and have different ways of dealing with things/people My friends at first didn't think it was a good idea either until they really got to know him, and now they really think he's a great guy. etc....Congratulations on your new baby! If they don't come around, then that's ok too! You're entitled to a happy life =) Best wishes!!
2007-02-08 12:08:43 · answer #4 · answered by suzlaa1971 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who did you marry your friends or your honey?? 34 is not old, yes he does have some age on you but if he treats you right, and loves you and vise versa then what is the problem? Now if he is a dead beat, no job, no education, and a loser then that is different. Being 34 years old i would imagine that he has his life straight.
2007-02-08 12:02:50 · answer #5 · answered by CurlySue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if your friends have a problem with it, it's their problem and not yours. I dated a guy for 2 years who was 12 years older than me. In the beginning my friends would make comments about it and refer to him as "grandpa" and such (I was 22; he was 34). Once they got to know him, though, I think they forgot about the age difference. He was DEFINITELY not more mature than me and had never been married either.
Not really sure what your specific question is, but my advice is that it's your life. You're the one who has to live it, not your friends. Do what makes you happy.
2007-02-08 11:52:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you may want to evaluate who your friends are, and why are they so concerned with your personal business. And less about your personal happiness. If you are happy, they should/would be happy for you. If they were true friends. Who cares what age he is, are you happy? Is he happy? That is all that counts. The two of you are a family. Your friends are some very miserable busybodies, who should find something constructive to do with their time, other than worry about your personal relationship. Just my thought. God bless****
2007-02-08 12:37:10 · answer #7 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well your friends are wrong! it all depends on how you look at it anything can happen when you are in love. you do have to remeber this: love is a battlefield so you have to go through so many things just to get accepted
2007-02-08 12:29:37 · answer #8 · answered by *_~♦~_* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your friends are jealous because they are sad and single and LONELY. Tell them to grow up. You obviously did.
2007-02-08 13:04:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friends need to grow up!
2007-02-08 12:18:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋