What should I do now?

Question

My husband and I have been together for almost three years, and have always had a good sex life. I probably have the higher sex drive, marginally. Anyway these last few months he hasn't wanted to, and I thought it was because he was under so much stress at work. But today, he told me he is bored of me sexually, and that its hard to **ck the same person day in and day out. I work hard to stay in shape and look exactly as I did when we met. I dress up for him, role play, watch porn. I'm really hurt, and confused. What should I do?

Answer 1

Good job for trying so hard to please your husband! I think that's wonderful. I try too, and my husband also talks about how he wants to have sex with other women.

Answer 2

What a jerk!! And I'm speaking as a guy.

From what I've been able to tell, you're doing all the interesting actions and he's being a bed potato. Besides which, the poor baby is bored.

Frankly, I'd say either get both of you to counseling or go to a place like Toys in Babeland or Good Vibrations and pick up some good toys to keep yourself amused because he's certainly not going to. Let him be bored. You've got more fun things to do.

Answer 3

Set him up.
It is said that a man produces more testosterone when he thinks his wife might be having an affair.
I am not saying to have an affair, just throw out a few hints and leave his imagination to take care of the rest

Answer 4

Your husband is full of sh**You don't have a problem he does! I'd tell him so and suggest counselling now. It sounds to me like your man is setting you up so he can have an excuse to cheat. Get counselling or get out this man has issues and is going to cheat

Answer 5

put good perfume on and strip naked in front of him if that don't turn him on nothing will caress his penis if that don't work leave his *** find some one who wants you