What goes through your mind when you see someone with Down Syndrome?

Question

Explain how you feel and what you are thinking.

Answer 1

well.....first of all, what goes through my mind is admiration. because I know first hand the obstacles people with DS face each and everyday from those of us in society that are deemed "normal". alot of times I have seen, and been witness to, the pity I see in others eyes....it is like they are saying "I am so sorry you have a defective child"...and yes, I am a mother to a little boy who has DS. But when I am looking at my son I have only an overwhelming love for him and I am PROUD to be his mom. Most people don't understand this. the reason I show pride when I talk about my son is simple....he not only is my son but I know first hand what he has gone through in his life and the obstacles he has overcome in the few short years he has been on this earth. the determination to complete his goals and the overwhelming amount of love and acceptance he shows to all who come in contact with him, it is remarkable! his acceptance of everyone he meets is something we all, as a society should try to strive for. the world would be a better place. having a child with DS has also taught me a patience and an acceptance of others I never thought I would have....in other words, having a DS child and meeting other people with DS has made me a better person, I may not be perfect, but I try.

Answer 2

The first thing I think is courage, followed shortly by Angel.
I tutored a girl with Down syndrom when I was younger, and she had more courage than anyone I know. People told her she wasn't going to pass public school.. and she was on the honour roll when she graduated. Then they said she wasn't going to be able to fit properly into the high school classrooms and wanted her to take the disabled classes.... She put up a fight and was enrolled in all Advanced Classes. She had the highest marks in her class, and is now in University. She proved to me, and to everyone else that if someone has a goal, don't try to take it away, because even if it's a struggle, when you want something bad enough, you can achieve anything and everything.

Answer 3

You know, I really can't explain it. Something about a Downs child and/or adult is just calming. They haven't a care in the world and are the happiest people alive. The other day, actually, I was grocery shopping (one of my most hated of chores) and a man went by that was taller than I was (now mind you everyone is taller than I am heh) but he was playing his Nintendo DS so intently with a big smile on his face. I looked back to see the game he was playing and noticed he had Downs but was about 40ish.....how many men you see walking through a grocery store with a big ol smile on their face. Now that is peace and joy if I ever saw it! At least a handful of us can see the good in these people and not want to lock them away like they are diseased!

Answer 4

As the mom of a beautiful, charming and very loving 19 year old daughter who happens to have DS, it's great to see how kind the previous responses have been. Even before my daughter was born I had always felt a special affinity for people with Down Syndrome. I thought that they had beautiful faces, and I loved their smiles! Our daughter has taught us much about patience and unconditional love, and I can't imagine how much less meaningful my life would have been without her in it.

Answer 5

When I see someone with Down Syndrome, I think to myself, "Hmm. That person has Down Syndrome. I hope their parents are aware of the many community support groups that are out there. It is amazing how many people are ignorant about Down Syndrome. Say, I wonder what I should have for lunch today? Oh, look! One of the new Honda Civics! That reminds me, I need to take my car in for its annual maintenance check."

Answer 6

In my experience, Down's Syndrome people are the most loving, caring people around. They are very accepting and strive to be independent despite their limitations and physical appearance. You might say that they have turned lemons into lemonade?? But perhaps they have a juvenile innocence to them- they don't know any better? None the less, they are mostly happy go lucky. :)

Answer 7

My Daughter became 5 weeks early, had 4 delivery defects, numerous markers for a syndrome and has had each genetic attempting out commonplace to guy to make sure what syndrome she has (they even concept she had downs) to make sure they don't comprehend what syndrome she has. All they could tell me is she has one, yet come back in many years and perchance then they could have the technologies to prognosis her. I comprehend being scared. It has not something to do with not desiring a imperfect baby, you dont choose you youngster to ought to flow via something extra. you want to make existence as uncomplicated as obtainable on your baby. i respect my daughter yet I wish she didnt ought to flow thorugh something she has had to. as far as not stressful once you commence imagine something may be incorrect, you should inform your self to end. It sound stupid, yet you should inform your self to close up. instead pray. I surely have not in any respect prayed a lot in my existence. stay faraway from the web and DONT analyze something it is going to stress you nuts. concentration on getting each little thing waiting for the toddler. have interesting inclusive of your very last days of freedom and with the flexibility to sleep whenever you want. and finally, i became informed by technique of the docs to not in any respect assume a lot from my daughter. the first three hundred and sixty 5 days became difficult, even though it became so difficult because I wouldnt cool down. I freaked out over each little element and drove myself nuts. delight on your being pregnant and your toddler even as she is right here. If there are bumps interior the line you'll manage and existence will nevertheless be eye-catching. I spent a lot time stressful and at 13 months my daughter is suitable, hitting the milestones and has surprised all the docs.

Answer 8

I think people with Down Syndrome are delightful. My best friends sister Maggie has DS and her honesty is refreshing. I also love her spirit.

When we take Maggie shopping with us, a lot of people stare. Maggie has such a wonderful spirit that if she notices, she says, "I know. I'm beautiful. I don't mind you staring." Then she cracks up. I just love her.

Maggie brings so much joy to her family and others.

Answer 9

I get excited. I have a son with Down syndrome and when I see another child or adult with it, I just want to rush up and hug them. I call it "Angel Spotting". I am particularly excited when I see older children or adults doing everyday things and enjoying life because I know my son is going to be just fine. Of course, like any protective mother, I worry about insensitive remarks that others may make, but it makes me even more determined to raise my son to be proud of who he is and to never be afraid to reach for the stars.

Answer 10

I feel bad because the Down Syndrome type of human is being exterminated with fetal testing. They are such gentle souls.