Why does a straight man always thinks he is taken advantaged of when a gay male does him many sincere favors?

Question

Both are living together in a different country. Gay is more dominant and older by about 5 years old than the straight male.

Answer 1

We tend to judge others by ourselves. Many, though by no means all, straight men, if they start doing favors for a woman, are working up to sexual advance. Such men automatically assume that a gay male who does them favors is doing the same thing.

Answer 2

Probably the same reason he would think a woman doing him sincere favors wants something in return ..And Brooke you need to chill out--

Answer 3

Men are stereotypically egotistic. So of course, this gay boy who is trying to be nice to the straight man is trying to get him in bed. A lot of heterosexuals fear homosexuality and are so conceited that they believe that once their friend comes out, he or she is going to want to sleep with them.

Answer 4

some people are spoiled - they think others are being selfish anytime they don't get their way or it's not all about them.

after all, you wouldn't ask a princess to grab some milk on the way home, esp. if she had already gone to the trouble of making her own lunch! : )

your roommate is jealous of you and the only way he can make himself feel better is to insult your character, even if it makes no sense.

this is very abusive on his part and i think it distracts from the real issue to make it a gay/straight thing.

Answer 5

I love favours. The more favours I get, the happier I am. I want nothing in return..just more favours.

Answer 6

I really don't understand. What kind of favors are you talking about?

Answer 7

How could they be living together but in different countries?

Answer 8

What kinds of favours?