does working for adult smut sites damage a woman's self esteem and lower her sense of pride?

Question

i am so wooried anbout some one i care for dearly being involved in the adult sex trade or white slavery

Answer 1

It certainly COULD, but it does depend on the woman.

The risk is essentially that, as a great modern saint said, "environment is stronger than willpower". By working for an adult smut site she is exposing herself (pun intended) to the influence of men's lusts, and in a broader sense to an environment where sex for sex's sake is valued and woman is valued only for her looks and sensuousness.

But if your dear one is mentally detached from what she is doing, is doing it as a service to people in need (or indeed in despair), is inwardly clear that she is a person of worth and her worth is intrinsic and does not depend on any externals, including what she does for a living, what other people say or think about her, or what she does with her boobs, then she is minimising that risk. Love from you and other people in her life, love that is non-judgmental, and indeed ideally is unconditional, is a context that will help her to live from that place of esteem.

Answer 2

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