I live in Virginia State, but i am a resident. I am 7 weeks pregnant, but my guy bailed out on me & changed his name. All i have is his car licence plate number & the make of his car.The DMV & Police would not help to give me information on his address. I don't have enough money to hire a Lawyer or a detective.
Any suggestion or a way by using the internet that i could find the information i need using his car tag number?
HELP PLEASE ! I don't want to go through the pregnancy without him & i don't want abortion !!! Thank you
2007-02-08 02:27:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Politics & Government ➔ Law & Ethics
In another post you were complaining that the USA is not the land of milk and honey and foreigners cannot even make a living here. Now you are asking for free help because you did not use protection? Why not go back to Russia? I am sure it will be much better for you.
2007-02-08 02:52:23 · answer #1 · answered by theartisttwin 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In Texas where were we buy the license plates you can fill a form and I think pay a couple of dollars to get the address. Maybe youwere at the wrong place. Call the place where you buy your license plates or license plate stickers and ask if they have a form for getting addresses from a license plate.
Also try whitepages.com and find him by his former name.
Well, I am really sorry for you. Another woman pregnant and the guy bails. Hope you see that he just wanted sex and nothing more, since he has allegedly changed his name. You should think seriously about an abortion. For I would not want to be bought into a world without a father.
2007-02-08 02:36:20 · answer #2 · answered by Big C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There you go, more information. I answered your previous question too.
I think that they only way you can find this guy is by getting a lawyer. It is too early to file for child support, so if you need him now get the attorney. Do you know who his parents are? If not, start calling people in phone book with his last name and ask if he is their son.
Many women go thru pregnancy on their own. It is pretty clear that he doesn't want to be around, so who is saying that he would come back if he knew? I am sure that you have a girl friend or family member that will be there for you.
Good Luck!
2007-02-08 02:34:59 · answer #3 · answered by Jo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, I hate to sound like a MOM, which I am..
but it's pretty much looking like he doesn't want to be a part of your life and pregnancy... (the name change?) and let me tell you from experience.. You can't FORCE someone to be a proper parent.. Men are children themselves, half the time.. and if you have the proper resources (house, money, job... etc..) to do this by yourself, you'd be better off trying it alone.
You didn't say how old you are.. but I'm hoping that you have other support systems in place to help you through all of this.
Being a parent is NEVER easy.. and I've watched several of my friends stay with the mother of their children BECAUSE of the children.. and it never is a happy environment for the kids..
I wish you all the best of luck. You're not in a good situation, but please try to remember that babies are a blessing..ALWAYS.
Email me if you ever need a cheerleader to get you through your day.
2007-02-08 02:34:16 · answer #4 · answered by michele 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he "bailed on you" while pregnant, why would you want him in your life? If you are going to search for him for financial support, OK. But he does not seem like someone you would want around anyway. The best way for you to locate him is apply for public aid of some kind. A part time employee of mine could not find the father of her baby, but once she was receiving government aid, they found him and garnished his wages. Why would you even consider abortion? Seems like you want and care for your baby. You do not need him.
2007-02-08 02:33:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the man bailed on his pregnant girlfriend - trust me hun you want to go through the entire rest of your life without this loser.
He isn't a man he's prick and isn't worth the air it takes to allow him to breathe.
Unless he legally changed his name (of which there would be public record) you can find him - and I strongly suggest that you do - for two reasons 1.) to kick him in the balls for being so pathetic and 2.) to be sure that he owns up to his obligations.
Good luck to you hun - but what ever you do...DO NOT LET THIS LOSER BACK IN YOUR LIFE!
2007-02-08 02:43:13 · answer #6 · answered by Susie D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless he enter some personal information online, there is no chance of finding him. It seems clear that he doesnt want anything to do with the baby at this time. Take care of yourself and the baby, and trust that with prayer GOD will provide a way. It will work out fine.
2007-02-08 02:35:44 · answer #7 · answered by EyeKneadPoints 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You SOL untill the Child is Born. you can try contacting the Family court system of whatever county you're in the might be able to hepl...(most likly not until the Child is born)
2007-02-08 02:31:21 · answer #8 · answered by mdlbldrmatt135 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry for your situation, he has made it clear he doesnt want to be involved, but I hope you locate him and at least maybe get an apology if not more.
2007-02-08 02:30:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋