i had sex the day afta my protection stopped. i was drunk. me nd my bf have split up nd he tld me if i am pregnant he wants to get rid ov it. i been feelin sik the last few days, but its only been a week. 2 early 2 tke test help!!!!!
2007-02-08 02:19:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Adolescent
im really sceard. my parents say that they will throw me awt aswell if i am.me nd my x bf were going awt 4 a year and half,cant believe he wants me 2 get rid if i am
2007-02-08 02:44:06 · update #1
all u can do is wait another week and test
2007-02-08 02:23:34 · answer #1 · answered by Mel 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
wait till ur supposed to have your next period, if ur late or if it's a LOT lighter than usual go to the doc and take a test. Don't let them tell u to get rid of the baby, remember regardless of ur age YOU are the mother and YOU make the decisions regarding YOUR baby. If you don't want to get rid of it then don't, but be sure whichever path you choose it's hard. If you keep the baby you will be on a hard road. Having a baby isn't easy, but it's worth it seeing them smile and laugh. On the other hand if you get an abortion you will have to live w/ strange mixed feelings of the "what if" sort. Feelings of guild also come along w/ that. Basicly, wait till u have a test to start stressin, cause if u strss over it too much it can mess up your period and it will cause u to stress more. My dad said the same thing about kickin me out when i was pregnant, but it all changed once he saw the first ultrasound and he melted like butter at the sight of his grandbaby. Right now they are just worried for you and sometimes ppl don't really know how to express it. I hope i have helped you hun.
2007-02-08 02:56:02 · answer #2 · answered by Cheezy 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There's no use jumping to the conclusion that you are, until you take the test. If you are pregnant the decision is up to you, it's your body and your life. What you do from that point on is what your willing to live with for the rest of your life.
Your parents are deeply shocked, saddened and are at a loss as to what to do, you did disappoint them. They may say things out of anger or heat of the moment but if they truly love you they will overcome this and will be there to help you deal with the situation. It may take them time but they will come around, just wait patiently and ask for their forgiveness.
For the time being think about your options if you are and if your not, learn from this. Don't ever play the game if your not up for the responsibility of parenthood. Babies are a gift from God, mistakes happen (once) but that is the path you have chosen and must now follow.
2007-02-08 06:11:11 · answer #3 · answered by trojan 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
WHY END AN INNOCENT HUMAN LIFE because you and your boyfriends LUST!! If anyone should be ashamed it is you and him and do not take an innocent LIFE if you are pregnant you will live to regret it the rest of you life!! I have seen too many women loose their sanity over GUILT after destroying a child that God gave life to. It is not a fetus..that is just a word that society uses to ease their minds when destroying a baby Planned parenthood and friends will try and convince you that that is the best thing for you to do but you have to live with the GUILT!! Not them. God Almighty will require you to answer for it's BLOOD you shed .
2007-02-11 22:05:23 · answer #4 · answered by sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know how you feel i was pregnant last year and had a miscarriage... i was upset, but at the same time i was happy.... i mean im only 16 now and im not ready for a kid yet... just wait about a week and if you take a test and it comes back postive go to the doctor and get a test done they are always right
2007-02-08 05:21:24 · answer #5 · answered by abraddock69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to your local planned parenthood clinic and get a pregnancy test and STD testing. They can talk to your about your options and birth control, which you desperately need.
In the future, I strongly suggest you have these discussions with your boyfriends before having sex with them. Frankly, most men don't want to be fathers until they are married to the woman they want to spend the rest of their lives with.
2007-02-08 04:14:17 · answer #6 · answered by kvcar2 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jus like everyone else said...wait and take a test. but also the more u think about u being pregnant the more symptoms u get. its a mind thing. so dont think about it to much until u actually kno
2007-02-08 05:31:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably too early for you to have pregnancy symptoms. Wait until you miss your period and then take a home pregnancy test or go see a doctor to be sure. Your BF sounds like a loser!
2007-02-08 02:25:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I would just wait and see what happens and if in a few more weeks you do not get your period take a test. Good luck and your boyfriend is a jerk!
2007-02-08 02:24:28 · answer #9 · answered by K J 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should go to the Dr. That's the only 100% answer you will get on whether or not you are pregnant.
2007-02-08 02:23:29 · answer #10 · answered by Dally 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Sure you could be pregnant, but of course the symptoms you describe also could mean you have contracted AIDS.
Best to go see a doctor since there is not one person online that can diagnose your problem... online.
2007-02-08 02:25:43 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋