at first, we cant seem to really accept the fact that he/she has already left us..this happens all very soon, cant seem to get used to the days when he/she is not around..however, as time passes by, one will get to slowly accept the fact that his loved one has left him & we will always remember that our love ones will still be living in our hearts..
2007-02-08 02:11:49
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answered by jas 2
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We cry as we cnat hold or take that our dearones passed away. We think that there is nothing left and we fear of our life without them. These all happen because, we dont immediately believe or realise that he/she is no more here..
According to certain Psychologists, this happens as we dont know what happens to us after we die. And all of us are not curious to know.. Even we are, we cant unless we pass away. So, in this desperate condition, we cant imagine the funeral process or burrial process of our near one as he/ she was alive recent..
with all these reasons we shed tears. But, after sometimw, our brain understands that the signals passed by those emotions contain charge. To neutrailise it, it starts discharging or passing on the consoling thoughts.. THus, we lay tranquil in solace..!!
2007-02-08 05:15:04
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answered by Anonymous
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My guess would be because it's not so new and fresh after a while, you get used to the fact that your loved one is gone, you make up your on conclusions (that they're peaceful, at rest, a better place, etc...) you begin to accept the truth and deal with it.I on the other hand still cry.
2007-02-08 02:16:27
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answered by Jax 4
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We go through various stages of grief.
After denial comes pain (crying stage) then comes acceptance, that's the part when you finally stop crying and "snap back to reality". After acceptance comes regret, where you finally get over your personal loss/death or a loved one and are living your live normally again, only with a pang of regret that the person isn't around to share that with you (but you've mostly accustomed to not having him/her around and you're OK with that).
2007-02-08 08:22:35
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answered by astella_interrupted 2
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That's because every second whatever is happening to us,whatever we a doing is fading out from our memory.because of this forgetting we can do so many different things through out our life......... imagine what if cannt forget anything ..the food you ate last sec or the just the last sentence you read.
2007-02-11 21:35:07
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answered by Anonymous
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THE TRUTH COMES TO OUR MIND THAT THE DEAD PERSON WILL NEVER BE BACK AGAIN.
THE TRUTH COMES TO OUR MIND THAT WE ARE NOT THE ONLY PEOPLE IN THIS WORLD DEPRIVED OF OUR DEAR ONES DUE TO DEATH.
THE TRUTH COMES TO OUR MIND THAT WE ARE NOT IN THE TOP OF THE SCALE OF THE SORROW FUL PEOPLE IN THE WORLD.
WE SEE A LOT MANT SUFFERERING AND SORROWFUL PEOPLE WITH IN THE FAMILY OF OUR FRIENDS,RELATIVES ETC AND WE CONSOLE OURSELVES.
THE DAILY ROUTINES,FIGHT FOR THE BREAD AND BUTTER PROBLEM OVERTAKES EVERYTHING EVEN THE LOSS OF A BELOVED ONE.
WE CAN NOT DIE AFTER THE DEATH OF A BELOVED BUT WE CAN ONLY FEEL SAD FOR SOMETIME AND LEAVE IT TO 'TIME THE HEALER OF ALL ILLS'.
2007-02-10 19:22:03
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answered by NQS 5
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Because as the saying goes...time heals all wounds. While it is still hard after a while, I think we finally get used to the idea that they are gone. That doesn't mean that you don't always miss them.
2007-02-08 02:13:15
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answered by saved_by_grace 7
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i quite do not comprehend what to assert. sounds like your kin is being unfair to you and also you want to consult them. yet i does not propose you practice emotion right here as this position is crawling with trolls searching for not something extra effective than to make someone in a foul mood sense worse. communicate with someone you've faith about this. wish you sense extra effective with the snake chew, Dictated yet not examine, Vincent
2016-11-26 02:28:00
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answered by Anonymous
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You never stop crying on the inside. You just realize that you have to move on and subconsciously they want you to move on.
2007-02-08 02:07:24
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answered by Anonymous
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We cry because we lost them and they are no longer with us. but obviously you can not cry for ever. Its a life cycle.
2007-02-08 02:07:37
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answered by Iqbal 4
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