Is There More than One Mate for a Person?

Answer 1

No not usually unless one spouse dies or something like that. While you are married there is not such thing as more then one mate for a person.

Answer 2

actually yes there is, in fact I have met her three times and all three times the she (being different) left me and was married to someone else within a year. Leaving me is something women want to do as I am non committal (or at least was back in my youth) I think the door of opportunity opens for individuals only to let them peak in, see what is about and decide whether or not to go into that room or to walk down the path to the next door of opportunity. I too think that we as adult humans don't realize all the true love there really are that are available to us in that the preconceived notions of looks, smells and tastes do keep our blinders rather tightly focused on many times the wrong person to love. We don't open our souls to share with everyone who reaches out to touch us either, we step back and evaluate rather than thank them for their attentions and go with their instinct thinking that we (being so sophisticated) can actually make the right decision when given the opportunity.

Answer 3

I believe that you could have a successful and happy life with several different people if you wanted to. There IS more than one person for you in this world; it's just who it is that you find. Women especially seem to mold their world around the man that they have a relationship with, so we are lucky that way in that we could have our choice of the kind of life we lead depending on the wealth, hobbies, physical fitness, status, employment or friends of our potential spouse.

I know that I kind of "blend" with the man that I am with and tend to take on his opinions and ways of doing things. I guess I'm adaptable that way. I think that I could have a great relationship with any number of men - if I wanted to. There's more than one person out there for us.

In fact, there's a book that came out a year or two ago about why we should be married more than once for optimal happiness. We should marry first for love and lust, then marry again for stability and raising children and then later marry for a third time for companionship into old age. Interesting concept. I wish I knew what the book was called.

I am in my third long-term relationship now - the one that I want to continue for the remainder of my life. We are very compatible and equal as far as health and fitness. Our sexual drives are equal and compatible as well. But the thing is, I love him with all of my heart - like I haven't loved anyone before (even ther father of my children). I care more for him than I do for myself, so I believe it is true and unconditional love.

However, if for some reason something happened and we were over, I would meet someone else and fall in love again. I know that it's my nature to love strongly and I need to have a man in my life to care for and do things for.

Answer 4

There are alot of people in the world and there are soul mates for everyone and many time more than one.

Answer 5

Yes there is. I have been married two times. I am divorced from the first one because we had too many problems but I did at one time really love him alot. I am now married to another man that I love with all my heart.

Answer 6

Not at the same time!

If you are asking if there is more than one person who is right for you, the answer is yes.

Answer 7

Think the laws of probability would probably suggest so

Answer 8

Yes, sometimes there is. And in some siruations it is acceptable and even preferred.

Answer 9

There can be....and I must admit, it adds alot of excitement too

Answer 10

yes there is, its true even me too