well i was wondering if i suspect him sneaking around smoking .... should i be mad?
2007-02-08 02:00:10 · 10 answers · asked by rebelmommy4u2 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Mad, no, disappointed, yes.
Most likely he is sneaking because either he is embarrassed, or he is afraid you will be angry with him.
This is when he needs you to be supportive, not judgmental. So being mad because he fails is not a good way to support what he is doing.
2007-02-08 02:09:30 · answer #1 · answered by camys_daddy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, quitting smoking is incredibly difficult and sneaking a cigarette every once and awhile is okay since the alternative feels like an anxiety attack. Just be supportive.
2007-02-08 02:04:52 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
He's only cheating himself, really. Just tell him you suspect he's sneaking and offer support if he wants to keep trying to quit. Don't be accusatory or anything. Just be there for him Congrats on quitting!
2007-02-08 02:08:53 · answer #3 · answered by §Sally§ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You both should quit for the sake of your health- sit and talk to him about this- even if you don' t smoke you still are in risk because he is smoking ( or at least you suspect he is), so talk about the health risks in smoking for both of you.
2007-02-08 02:13:19 · answer #4 · answered by Taz 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, because I hear it's a tough thing to do. You should talk to him about it and working with him through it. Be each other's support.
2007-02-08 02:08:20 · answer #5 · answered by T W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Disappointed, maybe, but your real issue is your own quitting.
"Team" quits almost never work because the whole thing falls apart if even one person does.
2007-02-08 02:07:47 · answer #6 · answered by fucose_man 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, worry about yourself quitting smoking.....
2007-02-08 02:02:46 · answer #7 · answered by abc 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
its a goal he made for himself. if he lied to himself about what he was going to do. let him deal with it on his own.
2007-02-10 15:50:25 · answer #8 · answered by mathnerd46 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes because you both made this commitment together
2007-02-08 02:26:27 · answer #9 · answered by MJ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes you should, it is in your best interest to quit my mother died an absolutely horrible death from lung cancer
2007-02-08 02:03:36 · answer #10 · answered by EmmaNicole 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋