iv been wiv my man for 1 year he has never lied or cheated but im a very inscure person i always no were he is and who his wiv and i know all his friend and family i no i shouldnt but i always go through his fone and never find any thing. but how do i no if he is cheating we also live together he goes to work and comes straght back after his finished and fones me on his way home and we e mail ech other while his at work on the week end we also go out together sum times.
2007-02-08 01:51:14 · 21 answers · asked by hot1sweets 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
his private parts will smell of rubber.....lol
or he will wont to do new things in the bedroom...lol
don't think you will ever now for sure.....so stop worrying and get on with it.....
2007-02-08 01:59:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
If your man comes home for dinner and ISN'T hungry.. (he had something to eat with Somebody else)
If your man comes home CLEAN from a dirty job.. (where was he all day?)
If your man comes home late with an excuse you CAN'T check out (I was stuck in traffic, snow, ice, road construction etc.)
If your man goes to talk on the phone where you can't hear his end of the conversation (Who doesn't expect a woman's voice on his end)
If your man has ready excuses as to why he is late and he is late often coming home (there was a meeting, I stopped to have a drink with so and so etc)
If your man gets phone calls and then has to go to the convenience store for bread, soda, chips, anything (he's doing a call back to the woman on the phone)
If you get 'hang-up' phone calls (she's looking for him)
If he suddenly leaves your side in a store or restaurant (she sees him with you and he wants to tell her that its nothing)
If your best friend touches your man in a way that sets off a little zing in your brain (this is woman's intuition.. listen to it. she's after him)
If you can't get him on the cell phone when he's supposed to be with the guys watching the game. (ya right.. so who else is watching the game with him)
If he ever gets 'pulled over' by the police and doesn't get a ticket but he has to listen to the cops talking about a car that looks like him (when do police Not give men a ticket? this is an excuse for the minutes he spent with or talking to her before he came home)
If his ears and/or cheeks turn red when he explains where he has been (men do blush when lying sometimes.. keep your eyes open)
If he suddenly has a nice ring or necklace and its not from you (she's putting her stakes in the ground around him)
There is more but I think you get the idea.. If your man isn't guilty of these.. and you still think he's cheating.. then either you have no basis OR your intuition has picked up on something you are not blatently aware of... another possibility is.. are You cheating? is it a guilt thing? ok enough to keep you busy now.. Keep the faith.
2007-02-08 02:20:35 · answer #2 · answered by ricketyoldbat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is generally only a symptom that something else in your relationship is wrong/missing.
My opinion is to work on your self-esteem. He is lucky to have you. From what you've said, he seems to love you & be happy with you. Trust him... he deserves it.
If he wants to cheat on you, he will, there is nothing you can do to prevent it. Keeping tabs on him 24/7 wont prevent it so try to take things easy and be happy. And if you find out at some point that he is, then you are better off without him & you will find someone who deserves you & your love.
You cannot go through life worrying about things that may never happen, you will only make yourself unhappy & that will reflect on your relationships.
2007-02-08 02:10:27 · answer #3 · answered by Jen G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're over the top. I'd never want that kind of enslavement. You need to chill out-your insecurity is going to send that good man packing. Understand this--if he wants to cheat on you, he will-no matter how much you keep tabs on him. Why don't you try just enjoying his love and companionship instead of worrying about every second he's away from you? You can't be enjoying being involved with him very much if this is how you feel. Maybe you should be on your own, then you wouldn't have to worry about who may be cheating, because you'll be all alone.
2007-02-08 01:56:51 · answer #4 · answered by melouofs 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Calm down! All the signs you described say that he doesn't cheat. Try to trust him a little bit more. And make sure there is great closeness between you two.If he does cheat on you after that, you will 100% notice that in his behaviour - the expresion on his face is the most important. And you will feel that something is wrong.
2007-02-08 02:04:05 · answer #5 · answered by vikingsrose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd seek counceling. IF you always know where he is, then you do have a problem.
some signs of a man cheating are:
they change their schedules, say their working later, leaaving for work earlier. They tend to dress differently, pay attention to how they look, smell, dress.
Yjey also either have a drastic change in sexual needs..........they either want it alot mre all of a sudden or they stop wanting it.
I think you got a good man. Go get some counceling so you don't run him off.
2007-02-08 01:59:48 · answer #6 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When would he have time to cheat?? You need to get control of your insecurities before they destroy your relationship. You should be able to be apart for days and know that the other person loves u and isn't cheating on u. If u keep up this lifestyle eventually I think he will end up feeling smothered and that is what will end it, not anyone cheating.
2007-02-08 02:47:20 · answer #7 · answered by Amber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesnt sound like a cheater,you are just insucure,you have no reason to doubt him.He works comes home to you,no messages on his phone.Stop doubting or you will eventually lose him.Maybe get counceling for yourself.You had better deal with this issue or you may lose him.A man can only put up with so much.He sounds like a good man.
2007-02-08 02:02:25 · answer #8 · answered by canteloupesweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give the guy a break,doesn't sound to me as though he's cheating.
Stop worrying about something that hasn't even happened,you'll drive yourself mad.
Let me tell you something I've learned in my 6O years, doesn't matter what you look like,or what you do, a man will only stay if he wants to.
So far he hasn't given you any reason to think he's cheating,it's all in your head.
He's with you because he want to be,enjoy it and stop driving yourself crazy.
2007-02-09 20:08:33 · answer #9 · answered by animalwatch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds fab, I wish any one of my past fellas had been more like that! Anyway, it can be difficult to trust but the other advice you've been given is accurate, there's only so much patience he will have and eventually he will get tired of your mistrust and maybe decide he can't handle it. This one's a keeper honey!
2007-02-08 02:06:30 · answer #10 · answered by sweetie darling 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The truth is... If you think is, he might as well be. If you can't trust him, it'll drive him crazy. If he isn't cheating, he'll leave you, and if he is, you should leave him. Just save some time and break up now!
2007-02-08 01:59:06 · answer #11 · answered by Mike V 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋