before I even had thoughts about this guy in any form or fashion .. i began having consecutive dreams about him being my husband. after several dreams, I decided to really look at him and come to find out he is very fine indeed! anyway some where down the line I started liking him but would act so indifferent arorund him (he had no idea I liked him) after a while I started noticing that he was always in my circle for no reason whatsoever and come to find out he liked me. before I had no idea..anyway now we are seeing each other for over 6 months but our relationship is weird...we are like the best of friends but we really haven't gone on dates and we do not speak about our feelings towards each other. we've spent a lot of time together hanging out but has not gone on an official date...I don't have a clue as to where we are heading ...I tried to ask before and he just was uncomfortable about the whole relationship thing...he was hurt in his last relationship...any suggestions????
2007-02-08 01:46:02 · 6 answers · asked by Mary S 2 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Philosophy
when you trust him with all your heart, when you know him better than you know your self, when he trusts you with no question and when he knows you better that he knows himself.
2007-02-08 03:46:36 · answer #1 · answered by blue print 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey communication is the key to having a successful relationship, if you both can't understand or appreciate each other, know what makes each other tick,... then you're both just taking the "friendship" thing for granted.
If you marry this guy, I'm willing to put to down hard currency in a bet that you're gonna divorce him in less than a year.
Infatuation is one thing. But Love is entirely something else.
You're gonna learn the ugly truth that there are things about him that you don't know or things that you don't want to know about him. Which will drive you both apart with irreconcilable differences.
If he's loaded, at least when you do get the divorce you'll be okay for a while till you do find the one true one who is right for you in every way.
good luck and have the "happy ending" you deserve!
cheers babe !!!
2007-02-08 02:19:00 · answer #2 · answered by somber_pieces 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if he is "the one" it doesn't mean he's "the one". I found my "one" a few months ago, and it didn't work out. He was perfect for me; we were great together, but he wasn't ready to be married. Sometimes I think, "why didn't it work?" but now I just think "I'm glad I don't know" 'cause I'm tellin' you my friend, things could have gotten ugly if we'd proceeded.
Just keep in mind that you not only have to find "the one". You have to find him at "the time".
2007-02-08 03:36:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
for one thing, just because you dreamt about this guy being your husband it doesn't mean he is 'the one'.
ok, it just seems as if he is cautious since he was hurt in his last relationship. why don't you talk to him about it though? tell him that you're sorry about what happened but you have to explain to him about how you feel about this relationship too. tell him you don't want to break up but to do some things differently...like acting as a couple at times.
if you don't open up to him he won't open up to you either....good luck!
2007-02-08 02:00:55 · answer #4 · answered by lily54 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh, I can only tell you that when you meet your soul mate, you just know. And feel. You feel that he/she is the one.
Sorry that I can't help more. Maybe you should try to talk to him again.
2007-02-08 04:33:22 · answer #5 · answered by Barbara V 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
question is Are you the one ?
2007-02-08 02:11:31 · answer #6 · answered by Micheal A 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋