my last period was december 10th..please read details..need advice!?

Question

July 29th got my period..then nothing in august, nothing in september...i took pregnancy tests after missing in august and sept...they were all negative..so i def thought i wasnt preg..b/c if i didnt get a preiod in that long..i figured i must not have been ovulating..oct 6th was the last hpt i took..it was negative...on 0ct 19th i started bleeding and cramping very heavily..went to the ER..they did a preg test,told me it was POSITIVE?! according to the doc.. i went to the gyno around the last week of sept & that test was neg too..but on that day the doc asked me the last time i had sex and i said about a wk or 2 ago...so when at the er they told me that when i had sex about middle of sept.thats when i got pregnant...i wondered HOW if i hadnt gotten a period..doc said period must have been coming when i had sex in mid sept. so all the time i was testing i hadnt even ovulated yet..beginning of oct tho my boobs were hurting which nvr happend b4..basically, this is all happening again

sorry i ran out of room and 4got to say that when i got the positive test at the ER i also had a miscarriage.So NOW my after miscarrying on OCT 19th..The next period i got was dec 10th for 5 days..since then i've got nothing..and ive been testing since mid january..all negatives..but once again like before my breasts started getting sore the beginning of this month..about 5 days ago..the only other time this happened was the last time...it seems like deja vu...the same time line, same symptoms..i had and have now light cramping like my periods coming..but its not here...it is possible that i ovulate much later than i think i do? or my cycles are really long? anyone who understands what im trying to say please give ur input or advice...i dont currently have health insurance..(im getting it soon) so its hard to get a blood test anywhere..planned parenthood told me they dont do blood..

Answer 1

I would try to find a doctor that would take you without insurance. Maybe you could work out a payment plan. I would strongly suggest going to the doctor and getting a blood test. If you are pregnant, you don't want to miscarry again. I had a miscarriage with my first pregnancy. My OB later discovered that my uterus lining doesn't get thick enough to sustain a pregnancy. He gave me progesterone to take from mid-cyle until the end, or until the end of my first trimester if I got pregnant. As a result, I have one healthy daughter and I am 9 weeks pregnant again. If you are ovulating later in your cycle, then you could have what is called a luteal phase defect. The luteal phase is the the time between ovulation and your next period. It must be at least 11 days in order for your lining to thicken enough to sustain a pregnancy. This is what I had, so I was given Clomid to help me ovulate earlier. However, Clomid can thin your lining, so although I ovulated earlier when I conceived the first time, my thin lining caused me to miscarry. I have heard of other women taking progesterone to help prevent miscarriages. I would suggest it to the doctor. Explain your situation and let them know that you will have insurance soon, but you need to see a doctor now. Hopefully, you can find one who will see you. If not, go to the hospital. I don't think they can refuse you, even without insurance. If you could be having another miscarriage, you need medical attention. Best wishes. My prayers are with you.

Answer 2

If your cycles are that long you should see a dr as soon as you get health insurance. If your having the same symptoms as when you were pregnant before than wait a week or 2 and take a pregnancy test. If you don't know when you are ovulating or getting a period then it would be hard to wait till you are late. If you end up getting your period you might want to start charting your basal body temp. If you do you should see when you are ovulating (temp rises after ovulation) and then expect your period about 2 weeks after that.