well me and my bf were 2gether 3 years ago when i was 17 and he was 20, we got engaged afta 2 months of bein 2getha then split up 4 months later.
we then got back 2getha 3 months ago, i love him 2 bits and i know he feels the same, but the relationship fells so much like the last one. he says he loves me 2 bits and never wants 2 lose me again, but he also said similar things in our last relationship! im confussed and scared of losing him again! any advice?
2007-02-07 23:32:33 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
If you're scared of losing him again then you should ask yourself are you afraid of being alone or is it because you truly love him? From what you say, my advice is to not give him any more chances but if you feel you can't live without him you should at least be firm about one thing - if he leaves again, it's over for good! Believe me, if he truly loves you he won't walk all over you he will do anything to make your relationship work! If he doesn't love you like he said he does, move on, he isn't worth it and you deserve better. Good luck.
2007-02-07 23:54:27 · answer #1 · answered by Chip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it can work, me and my wife were together when i was 15 and she 14, we split up then got back together when we were 19 and 18 split up again but for only 2 months then when we got back together again we were in our own flat and got married 3 months later - we are still happily married 4 years later with our daughter whos nearly 2 and a half.
You need to stop worrying and analysing the relationship and enjoy each other otherwise there's no point!
If you love him MAKE it work BOTH of you - hard work brings many rewards i promise you.
2007-02-08 07:50:47 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you guys would learn from your past relationship. This should help you now knowing what your getting into. Im hopeing this is true for my guy who I broke up with 6 months ago. I know a person cant change in 6 months, but im hoping they have taken the 1st steps and will be better the second time around. If anything I know what to expect, and if he still has the same problems AND I cant deal with them, then atleast I can say I gave it a chance and we truely wernt ment to be together.
2007-02-08 07:40:40 · answer #3 · answered by chickyboo222 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
From previous experiences I agree with everyone here, you broke up for a reason and people's characters never change.
There are plenty more good-looking men (or women if you want to venture down that avenue) out there who are waiting for you.
I'm sure will be fine :)
As long as you cease substituting numbers in place of words.
2007-02-08 09:09:31 · answer #4 · answered by delmontebanana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, if it didnt work the 1st time, there's no way it would work the 2nd time. you're too insecure about your feelings for him. perhaps you feel hurt by the last relationship u had with him and scared that it will happen again. go with your gut instincts. if you feel it's not right, break it off with him immediately. dont wait til it gets further down the track cos it will only make it harder.
2007-02-08 07:38:22 · answer #5 · answered by kristyb872001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you split within 6 months there must have been something amiss? isn't that supposed to be "the honeymoon period"? having said that, there must be something still there for you to have got back together! suck it and see i suppose. only time will tell!
2007-02-08 07:38:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no. been there and tried it. same problems arise and new ones with it. get a new man
2007-02-08 07:37:32 · answer #7 · answered by stormyweather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a new boy, someone you will be happy with and have no doubts
2007-02-08 07:36:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give it time - there is no rush
2007-02-08 17:23:05 · answer #9 · answered by intelligentbutdizzy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋