What you do depends on your understanding of "God". If you're not involved in a tightly controlled religious organisation, start looking at alternative books in a library. There are many different opinions on the subject.
As for your husband, if you have children, they must be considered before you pack up and walk out, with or without them. Try a non-religious counselling service, or whatever equivalent you have in your country.
Whatever you do, have faith in yourself. Know that the solution to this problem is within you, not outside.
2007-02-07 23:16:32
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answered by Anonymous
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Do you mean that you have lost faith in God and in your husband? Or that you have both lost faith in God? What to do about it? Can you think back to when you did have faith? What was responsible for your faith then? Nothing has changed on God's side, He loves you still, so what have you done to lose faith? An old saying is, "Those who pray together stay together", so try it and let God get to work in your lives. He has great plans for you, so don't prevent Him.
2007-02-08 07:14:21
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answered by Malcolm 3
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Lost faith on husband is understood but not lost faith on God. If you have any problem with your husband write to me for free legal advice.
2007-02-09 01:52:53
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answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7
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Your question is incomplete dear. Why you lost faith in both of them? Has your husband done something wrong or he is not able to reach to your expectations?
First of all I will suggest you to look in to your own collar. Find out if something's wrong on your side? Are you expecting too much from God or your husband? Show yourself a mirror.
People tend to loose faith in God when they loose patience. So keep patience for what you want or what you want to eliminate from your life.
Secondly, to solve a problem with your husband, talk to him about how you feel. If you think he is doing something wrong, just talk to him about that with respectful manner. Remember, if you throw a flower it might not come back to you. But if you throw a stone, it will surely bounce back to you.
And try to consult a marriage consular if problem is far too serious.
That's all what I can help. Rest all depends on yourself. Don't loose faith in God. He is always there for you.
2007-02-08 07:31:27
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answered by TJ 3
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The way you asked the question implies that the problem lies with you. If the problem is not you, then you need to give more details about what you think your husband and God are doing wrong. If you are living a blessed life and your husband is fantastic and yet you still feel this way then all I can think to say is quit focussing on the negative!
2007-02-08 07:10:37
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answered by Anomaly 4
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Faith who? Faith Hill. Go back on God and look for Faith and your husband. Check in his mohawk. They're probably doing the nasty.
2007-02-08 07:11:58
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answered by Anonymous
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god does not cause the hurts in our life, people do, when we have no faith in god, we really have lost all faith in anything. god cannot change people as people have free will, god cannot bring back a cheating spouse, or change our lives drastically but we still need to trust in god, when we loose god we have lost all faith in everything.
2007-02-08 07:40:53
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answered by jude 7
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I'm not sure I understand, is your husband a Vicar?
Why are the two exclusively mutual? Why have you lost faith in your husband, has he been unfaithful? Your question is far too vague.
2007-02-08 07:09:13
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answered by Yayick 2
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Since god is a man-made myth, losing faith in that myth is a mater of maturity. It's like losing faith in Santa Claus... Welcome to the real word, Virginia.
As for the faith you had in your hubby, what happened? Did he prove himself to be an imperfect human. Men will do that. Drat.
2007-02-08 10:56:13
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answered by JRSK007 3
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I lost faith in god some forty years ago and it has not bothered me one iota. When I lost faith in my wife, now therein lies a BIG problem.
2007-02-08 07:11:47
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answered by emiliosailez 6
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