Do you thinks its acceptable if the husband/wife OK's it? Or do you think its disrespectful or cheating?
2007-02-07 22:23:43 · 29 answers · asked by Got Curves? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'm a woman that was invited to go w/ a group of other women.
2007-02-09 02:09:33 · update #1
I wouldn't mind if my husband went occasionally. It's not cheating in my eyes, just a night out with the boys. I know that he wouldn't do the wrong thing & I trust him so I have no problem with it. It depends on how his wife feels though. If she doesn't like the thought of it, then he should respect her opinion & not go.
2007-02-07 22:29:37 · answer #1 · answered by kyls 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that if a couple loves each other then why should they go watch the other sex dance at a club......
it is disrespectful to the other spouse and I think can cause problems....why would anyone need to look at another if they have a good marriage/relationship
Also the money spent giving to the strippers we could take each other out to a nice romantice dinner or buy something to make a VERY nice romantic night at home
my husband is my private stripper/dancer =)
2007-02-08 08:42:00 · answer #2 · answered by dreamingone39 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it is very degrading for women, even though they are making money off the men.
I don't think it is right for married men or women to go to strip clubs. It's okay when you are single, but once you commit to someone, it is just plain wrong. Why would I want my husband to stare at a naked or topless woman?
I can give my husband everything that he needs and he does exactly the same for ME.
2007-02-08 06:28:19 · answer #3 · answered by His Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A strip club is actually the safest place for a married man to be. That may sound strange, but it's true. None of the strippers are there looking to meet guys...in fact, most of the women working in that situation despise the men they dance for. So your man may get revved up looking at a nude or semi-nude woman, but then he comes home to you. If your husband and his buddies go to a dance club, there ARE women looking for men there, and your man has a better chance of getting into trouble.
Clubs where men dance for women are MUCH wilder than the reverse.
2007-02-08 06:39:35 · answer #4 · answered by Kevman9999 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
We both enjoy going to a strip club on occasion. We're fairly sexual people, and we enjoy most all aspects of it, including dancers.
Plus, some dancers actually enjoy seeing a woman in the crowd. If the two sort of "play" to each other - just camping it up; nothing bad - the guys get extra excited and start laying down more tips. The dancers gotta love that.
We got to know one dancer pretty well, and she was always happy to see us.
2007-02-08 07:35:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think there are a lot of "it depends" on this one. (1) I don't see anything wrong with meeting some friends at a strip club and having a few beers and laughs, so long as it is infrequent. (2) I do see something wrong with going to one alone. (3) I also think that if you're paying money to have a topless woman grind on you (or worse) in a lap dance or private room, it's wrong. (4) Lastly, if your wife doesn't know that you're doing it, it's probably wrong.
To me, "wrong" isn't always "cheating." #3 comes closest, but to me it still isn't cheating unless you're having sex with, or trying to develop a romantic relationship with, someone else.
2007-02-08 06:41:06 · answer #6 · answered by John 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i do believe it is disrespectful to the spouse, as sometimes going to a strip club changes the way he sees his spouse, because we as wives just can't compete with the strip club girls they act differently, look differently, they are like fantasy girls. can turn into a cheating thing after awhile, u know what kind of woman he wants to be with, he likes fantasy things that really don't exist in real life.
2007-02-08 06:35:07 · answer #7 · answered by jude 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think its fine and it is in no way cheating. My friend has gone to strip clubs w her husband. We agree looking or watching is not cheating and it keeps her husband happy so what the heck!
2007-02-08 08:02:12 · answer #8 · answered by jillmarie2000 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would say yes & no!
I wont mine my b/f going
Coz i'll go myself
AS LONG...............
As both of you are faithful & you just basically go to have a gud time - a gud time meaning just a few drinks with the guys & a lotta naked chicks around
You should contain yourself - by that i mean:
1. do not touch the stripper
2. do not make her give you a lap dance (your married dude)
3. do not let your mates disrespect the woman
4. THINK OF THAT STRIPPER AS YOUR DAUGHTER - she use to be someones little girl to.
5. What if your wife starts touching & drooling all over some hot SEXY NAKED MAN
Hope my 2cents helped
cheers
2007-02-08 06:35:55 · answer #9 · answered by MERCAYDEES 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
in my eyes yes it is cheating i mean if you went to a persons house and they took there clothes off and gave you a lap dance or whatever there really is no difference between that and being at a strip club how would your fiance feel if they saw that i think that it is disrespectful and mean
2007-02-08 18:58:33 · answer #10 · answered by brynn_21 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋