He has been married in the past. He says I am the one and is very confident in us. He has no doubt that we are going to be together. How can I trust what he is saying and that he's not just saying it b/c that's what he thinks I want to hear
2007-02-07 22:18:07 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
you mean LCD, ?
2007-02-07 22:26:12 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since he has been married before he has some insight about marriage.(or not). You women kill me. A man tells you you are the one and you question it. He says nothing and you question that. You are the one with the doubt, so tell this man that you have doubts. Then see what he says and does. But this is where the water can get rough. Hope you can handle his answer good,bad,or indifferent. Stop being a chicken. You either love him or you don't
2007-02-08 08:34:44 · answer #2 · answered by payne116 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you don't know if you should trust him about a matter like this, then I'd say you definitely aren't ready to marry him yet. Starting a marriage with a trust issue is just setting yourself up for failure. Don't even think about it until you have a deep level of trust in him and what he says. Work on it and remember that sometimes actions speak louder than words.
2007-02-08 06:26:44 · answer #3 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to ask yourself can i trust and believe this guy or not? If you cannot trust him then DO NOT marry him but if you can then go ahead and tie the knot. How does he know you are the one and why does he feel this way. I also suggest the both of you go to pre marriage counseling to make sure and see if you are ready for marriage too. If he does not want to go to this with you then do not marry him and break it off with him now!
2007-02-08 06:35:44 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You obviously don't trust your boyfriend. I would not get married until you have no doubts about this man that wants to marry you. I assume LD means long distance. Why are you separating?
2007-02-08 06:29:55 · answer #5 · answered by His Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry, i really can't advice you on this! he's been married! i only hope that after he marries you, someone else won't say (sometime in the future) ... "he's been married before!"
2007-02-08 06:38:19 · answer #6 · answered by Kheme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. what is L.D?
2007-02-08 06:58:04 · answer #7 · answered by prabhakar_ace 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋