my bf of 2years suddenly dumped me after an argument but the night before he kept wanting hugs and tellin me he loved me i am very shocked he still wants 2 be friends we are planning to hang out, he said he duznt like me as a gf anymore an said it hasnt bothered him wat so ever but i think it has an he just isnt saying wen we hang out if he likes me what will he do, should i wait for him to contact me of shud i contact him? should i act happy an make him realise or act sad i really dont know wat to do
2007-02-07 22:10:07 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
He is tired of you. Sorry to be a messenger of ill news, but it is very clear. Now, if you still care for him and want him back, for a while at least so that you can get your head together, about the only way I can think of is to ignore him and feign interest for somebody else. You see he is taking you for granted. The moment there is apathy and disinterest on your part, his ego will resurface. But do not raise your expectations too much. He might just come back for a roll in the hay to reassure himself that you are still his "property".
2007-02-07 22:19:33 · answer #1 · answered by emiliosailez 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually sounds like he is so over you and wants to be friends.
Unfortunately, you believe that you are all that, so you think he is either lying or bluffing.
The only person who is in denial is YOU.
You need to either accept your NEW ROLE or ditch the friendship.
Your call. But he HAS moved on -- don't get it twisted.
And in closing, you may be cute, but you're not THAT special.
2007-02-08 06:39:58 · answer #2 · answered by DaMan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He feels guilty because his hugging you was his breakup, but he didn't have the guts to do it right then. He made his decision the next day.
He's with someone else. Find someone to love you. Good luck.
2007-02-08 06:13:51 · answer #3 · answered by A Military Veteran 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should act the way your truly feelin..if u feel sad..act sad..if you feel happy..act happy.
he is not your bf anymore..move on..live you life..if he contacts you..thats aiight..but if he doesnt..dont stress out.
2007-02-08 06:21:27 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
heyyyy why u want to love that person who's least interested in uuu......??? I would say.........don't...........ever.......do that sin......
2007-02-08 06:24:23 · answer #5 · answered by hots! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out the TRUTH!!!
2007-02-08 06:55:17 · answer #6 · answered by Kheme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋