at my work we have a lot of manipulative and two-faced lyers anyway I'm friends with my manager and she said to just look after myself and stuff everyone else, is this selfish or the only way to get by in life?
2007-02-07 21:02:57 · 15 answers · asked by buttafly_biattch 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
it's not selfish on the job, it's survival.
2007-02-07 21:13:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with look after yourself but not with stuff everyone else. I believe in what goes around comes around, and thus if you live your life not doing damage to others it pays well. And those who do bad stuff get it at the end. It is natural:)
2007-02-07 21:08:52 · answer #2 · answered by Bojana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it's selfish. But sometimes you have to be selfish to suceed. If you don't really want any friends at work, and you're there for the job, then yeah...stuff everyone else
2007-02-07 21:07:21 · answer #3 · answered by sharkgirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Excluding your closest friends and family and of course your cat, dog, or goldfish, this is unfortunately the best way to get by in life. The more you stay to yourself and out of the gossip and drama, the less likely you are to get pulled into it when it reaches its height.
2007-02-07 21:44:32 · answer #4 · answered by neve_freak2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to live. It's not selfish, it's self preservation.
2007-02-07 21:06:13 · answer #5 · answered by dh1977 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I dont believe its the only way to live.. well maybe it works for short term success but it defiitely will not get you long term success or happiness.
2007-02-07 21:10:55 · answer #6 · answered by supagrrrl84 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your boss, she knows what she is talking about. Its not being a bad person or selfish.
2007-02-07 21:08:36 · answer #7 · answered by Mrs. Shrek 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its totally the only way to get by in a workplace like that.
2007-02-07 21:31:30 · answer #8 · answered by strictly_vw_baby 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's upset and working a long shift can get people that way especially if they are two faced liars! lol
2007-02-07 21:08:13 · answer #9 · answered by kowalley 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They are tow faced liars... why would you want to help them? Get on with yourself and keep being friendly with your boss - you could get a pay rise or promotion! x
2007-02-07 21:06:48 · answer #10 · answered by VintageSecret-xo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋