how to understand the psychology of my six year old son?

Question

how he views me itutor in his studies very strictly.he compulsorily wants to sleep near me.he is not conveying me about his friends or his view

Answer 1

he is behaving like a six years old kid.why don't u read some child psychology books which will help u to understand your son better or try to be his friend rather than his mother. he will open up

Answer 2

HE'S SIX!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
6 year olds are still learning a great deal about the things around them. The mentality of a 6 year old is more developed then the toddler, but it's still trying to take everything in.
Try bonding with him more as a mother than a tutor. Give him a snack when he comes home. Tickle him, play with him, just ask him, did you do anything fun today? Make him feel smart. Because 6 year olds are smart. They observe things, play, are curious. Show a genuine interest in your son. Maybe have a surprise for him after school, like a trip to the zoo, or someplace he really likes. And make a deal with him, use POSITIVE reinforcement to encourage good behavior at home and school. If he does well for a month, he gets to pick out a cool toy. or he can stay up a half hour later, or he can watch his favorite show. Reward him for his accomplishments, and discipline him for his bad. Chances are he'll open up more to you, if you put these actions into your schedule and show that "motherly" side. It's obvious you have an interest in your son. Show him you're his mommy, and that you love him. But don't smother him either, especially since she seems to want to sleep with you. It's a hard habit to break. My dad just had to keep sending me back to my room. Finally they solved the problem by getting me small rotating fan and a cloth hamock, the noise, breeze, and swinging motion literally knocked me out. and does to this day haha!
Six year olds can also be shy. I was EXTREMELY shy when I was six, but when I was 4 I would chase people around trying to be their friend. Please remember that your child will change alot. He's not an adult. That is the psychology of a six year old. He sees the world as wide, and observes it. If you're really that concerned, google "developmental psychology" or "child psychology" I'm sure you'll find something. Take it from me, that's my major.
cut your son some slack. Relax a little with his "studies" when I was six, I had to color, spell in print, and read a few sentences, (although I was an eager reader, and always over read), and have my mom sign a paper saying I could read it.
Let him have some fun, play with him, observe him, watch how he looks at things. You'll learn alot from watching him. It can even change the way you think or see something

Answer 3

Watch his actions and interests and do not admonish him all the time. Reward him for good conduct with chocolates, toys etc. The boys of this age can be troublesome but you have to be patient and slowly try to understand his problems and resolve them. Regarding his sleeping near you, its a common problem which will get solved as he grows up.

Answer 4

First you try to become his good friend and make sure that ur son wont misuse this friendship.Once he feels that you are his good friend he will start sharing all his problems to you but you should handle all his problems smoothly if you over react the kid may not share any thing else more to you .so be his good friend and try to understand what your son needs ,what is his problems,who are his friend etc and help him in all ways.

Answer 5

i think
1. let him do what ever he dose but show him first that if you did this thing wrong then be ready for a punishment and if good for a ice-cream.
2. if you want to make him talk to you,then talk to him about your school days, childhood friends,the games you use to play,how you harass your mother and how she reacts,about your life not only about childhood but your dreams, what you do the whole day,
3. if he wants to sleep with you make him sleep but then tell him stories about prince who went to the jungle alone and conquered the world "prithvi raj chouhan" and him feel that he is a brave boy.
4. play with him be his mother friend

Answer 6

he is still a baby, there is nothing wrong with him wanting to sleep next to you unless there is another reason, he will go to his own bed on his own time. maybe you could try just letting him lay next to you for naps. tell him its too hard for you to sleep at night, be gentle. he will grow up so quickly and you will wish you had that time back, He may not have the words to express what you want to hear. He is his own person, maybe there is nothing wrong in his world. he just doesn't have anything to tell you. ease up on him. as long as he know he can talk to you without being punished or criticized. he will gain confidence in you and himself. there needs to a distinction between "school time mommy" and "regular mommy" just remember he loves you and looking to you for guidance. don't scare him by being so insecure in your own ability. good luck.

Answer 7

Does he have brothers and sisters? That helps bring out social skills in children. Let him play more with cousins, and other relatives.

Answer 8

oh!!come on!!
he is just a small child..
give him some time to form an opinion of his own..
help him..guide him to view the things in proper manner..
spend more time with him and help him.

Answer 9

First of all you need to communicate effectively, which according to the way you phrased your question...you are not.

Answer 10

he is by feared by teachers strictness,he has inferiority complex .
please help him in his study give more time to study when hr become strong in study teacher's strictness will automatically come down.
give him lot of love.
he needs more care .do it.
good luck1