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Dear Name,You have 3 days to leave,take care of your health and enjoy a happy life. It seems what we talked about on internet are only lies. Not on my part.I don't mean you are bad. You been good in college and now also. We are not dangerous people.
You were right when you brought your wife to the lunch on Monday. It proves your sincere mentality. Anybody else comes only after your wife.But I thought we shoud meet specially as you would be leaving for US, as you are the only man in my heart. I will not try to dominate your wife as she was with through you thick and thin. Only that I want to be your friend as well. Though I am sincere and disciplined, I have become this because your phone call two years back when I was depressed gave me lot of strenght. I contacted you on mail after one year. What happened later is known to you and me
I never experienced the love, affection and security in my life as I did in your friendship that is when we met in(contd)

2007-02-07 20:50:57 · 7 answers · asked by venus 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

in the resort. I always wanted to be a caretaker for my family but now i am depressed and low. It may take another year for me to come there, I don't know whethr I can live that long. How could you and your wife live seperately for seven years? It makes me feel bad. But you two can talk on phone and net without fear unlike me who is always afraid. I don't mean you will not be angry with me when we live together, but there is love and responsibilty in it. It is 4AM. I go on writing like this. Try to understand and do not forget,please.with love&love&love Name who needs you a lot. I never wrote this deep to anybody previously.end
I never really intended any relation and I always loved my husband and he knows it. I felt depressed when i could not find any support from him or my parents and he gave me only emotional support. he loved me in the past though i never cared for him. I nver even send the letter did not i love to him either. Did i do something wrong?

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2007-02-07 20:54:29 · update #1

7 answers

I'm confused. This letter is not clear and raises many questions.

When did you write this? Wouldn't you be hurt if your husband wrote this letter and you found it? Maybe your intentions weren't as they appear, but that doesn't mean you haven't done anything wrong. Your thoughts and words have betrayed him and I can't believe you don't realize that. Good luck on working things out with your husband.

2007-02-07 20:56:14 · answer #1 · answered by Swim Mom 4 · 0 0

Are you kidding? Why wouldn't your husband be hurt you just stabbed him emotionally right through the heart.For what ever reason your husband is suppose to be full filling that role in your life not some other bloke.
Let me ask you this if it was reversed and your husband wrote that to another women how would you be feeling right now please think about it and have a heart.



After some time went by I came back and looked at this hun you need to go to a Dr or counsellor to talk You seem to need medical help promise your self you will cause you need it and you are worth it make your goal to be happy again.

2007-02-08 04:58:38 · answer #2 · answered by deb m 4 · 0 0

Your husband is mad about this letter because he now believes you have had an affair with this other person. It doesn't take a rocket scientist to figure this one out. Now your husband is hurt and angry and know's he can't trust you at all.

2007-02-08 06:10:46 · answer #3 · answered by michael_trussell 4 · 0 0

Well he should be mad I don't blame him a bit. And I am sure you would feel the same about him if you found a letter form him like the one you just wrote.

2007-02-08 07:05:14 · answer #4 · answered by bette69 5 · 0 0

Sounds like u need some serious help, like counseling, and or other Psychiatric help.
You question and info was definitely rambling

2007-02-08 05:03:21 · answer #5 · answered by moeeeeus 2 · 1 0

I don't understand what you said, but from what I gather, I would never put that in writing to anyone:)

2007-02-08 05:03:12 · answer #6 · answered by Nort 6 · 0 0

I don't want to read this thing again. I didn't understand it the first time round.

2007-02-08 04:57:56 · answer #7 · answered by noddy 3 · 1 0

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