We have been split for over a year but i keep dreaming about him and they feel as if its reality. i ask him if he is with anyone he says he ant... its just so weired.. i ant bothered as i have moved on but why do i keep dreaming about him???
2007-02-07 20:40:40 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
i can relate to what you are all saying to me many thanks.. i just want it to stop now..
2007-02-07 21:02:01 · update #1
It is very common for people to dream about ex-partners. Individuals that have been an important part of our lives continue to take up a part of our mind and heart. It is impossible to very dramatically shut the person out of thoughts and feelings. Just because the relationship ends does not mean that all is finished. As we go through relationships we learn and at times pick up "battle wounds." You will continue to dream about your ex boyfriend until you "let go" of him on a very important level, or until you learned your lessons from that relationship. Either way, dreaming about your ex-romance does not predict future involvement. It may be wish-fulfillment, reliving memories, or working out old issues.
2007-02-08 06:55:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have to say that I understand dreams quite well and this type of recurring dream would indicate an insecurity in you. Either you are replaying some rejection in your head or you are still trying to make sense of why you split with this man. The subconscious has a good way of trying to sort such things out, but I would not take ithis type of dream literally.
2007-02-07 20:46:01 · answer #2 · answered by square_dotzz 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but its simple,
the dream represents excess gas in your bowles your ex is the gas build up and seeing him with someone else was the release of the gas (a fart) and inhaling a little bit in your sleep thus creating a vile image in your dream. That's all maybe you ate a gingsters chicken tikka slice that day !?
you just merely farted in your sleep
or
you still have deep feelings for him and cant bear to think of him with someone else. Try and let go chick or it'll tear u up
xx
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2007-02-07 22:34:49 · answer #3 · answered by Red5 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
u say u have moved on but there's a part of u that hasn't let go n still holds a torch for him, maybe it finished wrong n left a part of u feeling like it has unfinished business, u may have to talk to him n tie up any loss ends so u can finally move on fully and have a happy life
2007-02-07 20:52:56 · answer #4 · answered by Paul&Sara 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
dats bcoz u still aint over him.. simply put, u still yearn for him.. psychologically, u're thinking that u still may have a chance if he didnt get himself attached to anotha gal juz yet coz if that happens, dat will be the harshest news u've received and that wil make ur dreams become nightmares! and one otha thing, as an EX, he may lie to u.. he cud actually be attached but juz say he's single coz he dun wanna complicate things or make u hurt even more.. i'm not saying that dreams have da slightest hint of truth in them, but i'm positive that dreams tend to over-analysed our imagination a bit.. like we think of the worst, then sumhow that image get potrayed in our dream and that lowers our self-esteem and makes us paranoid even more bout our life.. best advice i can give to u is move on to anotha guy.. coz if there's a better sumone out there, u'll forget bout ur ex coz the new guy will occupy ur whole mind.. and furthermore, i gotta ask, why shud u bother that ur ex appears in ur dreams aniwae? juz brushed it off and dun get affected!
2007-02-07 21:15:07 · answer #5 · answered by fizadora 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This happens to me a lot....expect i dream about my ex husband that i divorced 8 years ago. I'm now happily remarried for 7 years.
In my dreams it always ends with me kicking him out....it's just my way of reaffirming to myself that he was a big *** and i'm better off without him.
In your dream.....maybe you don't fully understand why you split or perhaps you just reaffirming that you didn't trust him which is why the dream is reoccuring....you're not satisfies with the answer.
2007-02-07 20:54:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Desperate
2007-02-07 21:01:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think you dream about your ex boyfriend while you are with a women is because you are still in love with your ex
2007-02-07 20:49:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Probably because his is fooling around on you|
He gives that away by subtle signs that do not consciously register, but your subconscious picks them up|
That is what is coming out in your dreams|
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2007-02-07 20:48:40 · answer #9 · answered by Catholic Philosopher 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have partly answered your own question.
when two people split all manner of things go on in our minds like( whats he or she doing now or he or she may be more better than me ) and it goes on and on so you are perfectly normal . i have just Divorced my wife on mutual grounds and i feel the sme and dream.
2007-02-07 21:59:40 · answer #10 · answered by SAMANTHA H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋