How can i find genuine friends in Dubai?

Question

This is a place where everybody seems to want something in return for anything,

Answer 1

Dubai is one of the most open, social, culturally mixed cities in the Middle East. There are opportunities to meet people in night clubs, libraries, religious meetings, social clubs, charity benefits, beaches, athletic clubs, schools and universities, shopping centers, etc. What you are describing takes place everywhere in the world - you just have to ignore that type of person and focus on people who have the same interests and beliefs as you do.

Answer 2

This is a difficult question because you haven't given much information. Have you been looking for a long time? Where have you been looking? I must admit I have quite a support group here since I came to Dubai on recommendation by a friend and through that friend I've come to know new friends. I'm quite complacent in this area since this group is from the same place as I am, they live only a few minutes away from where I'm originally from and we all speak the same language, so there has been no real "need" to actively look for friends.
My point is (sorry for the long introduction), I can see how people can get lonely and alienated here, since I feel the same way even while I've already got quite a group of friends. But it's never quite like the set of friends you've got back home. So, as with all good things, finding "genuine" friends will take time. Hang in there. Give the people you meet a chance. You'll never know.

Answer 3

Dubai is not an average city. The expat population is growing in a high speed. Complete new communities are build consisting of inhabitants who don't have a history together. You must be a special breed to take the step to start a new live here. Some are coming here to make money or because they cannot find a job at home, some for the adventure, the sun, a better life, saving for retirement or for their kids education, quite a few are here on their own; away from their family or being single....., but on the other hand the fact that so many people are moving in and passing by gives also lots of opportunities.

Like you are trying to find friends..., others are struggling with the same. WHERE and HOW to meet the people that match with you is the clue. For me picking up new hobbies with lessons and sportive activities was the solution. Have a look at this collection of clubs, lessons and social networks:

http://www.startpagedubai.com/AND/meet_new_friends_in_Dubai.htm

And once you are in a social group that you fit in and enjoy..., by itself you will meet more friends through that.