After 5 yrs of marriage we don't make out any more, small kiss hello and bye but for the most part the sex and the making out has slowed. Sex is maybe once a month if that, and we having made out in so long it freaks us both out when I tried to so that, it's a werid feeling? I know we are in love still but what's the deal wih the changes in intimacy?
2007-02-07 20:29:38 · 9 answers · asked by highflyingsaucer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
that sucks, me and my hubby don't really make out unless we're in bed, but you should be having sex a lot more than 1x a mo. and you should NEVER feel uncomfortable making out with your hubby. i have been married for three years and with him for 7 and have 2 kids he said if we don't have sex ATLEAST 2x a week atleast, he would die cuz " it's" poisin and has to "come out" lol
2007-02-07 20:34:59 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Anything you do the same way gets boring. Make sex a priority. Guys, take a shower right before bed, turn off the tv, and take 5 minutes to massage your wife with oil or lotion. Girls, open up your mind and learn a trick, become more active during lovemaking, and tell us when something feels good. You will be surprised how an enthusiastic "Ooh! That feels good right there" gets us motivated.
2007-02-08 04:45:12 · answer #2 · answered by jax0817 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well welcome to the world of marriage and the busy life. Only 24 hours in a day---remember the days when all you had to do was hang out and kiss and fool around??? Well real life has snuck in and changed all that.Millions have this issue. You have to work at finding a little more time for each other--without falling asleep.It is natural and it happens. get some books at the store--they can explain it all in depth and help you work this issue out. Good luck
2007-02-08 04:48:22 · answer #3 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I guess it all depends upon the couple. We have been married over 17 years, and things are better than ever! We are loving and lustful, have tons of fun and laughter - have been through hard times, but are closer than ever, and that deepens all the time.
Sometimes, you need to "act" your way back into the feelings - they can come back...
2007-02-08 07:41:15 · answer #4 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter how long You have been married , the making out and sex should never slow down.. if it has there is a problem and it needs to come out..
2007-02-08 06:38:38 · answer #5 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you get stuck in a rut and can take each other for granted break the habit now before boredom sets in take a romantic break away try Amsterdam it will truly open your eyes! good luck xx
2007-02-08 05:19:38 · answer #6 · answered by t bird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strange how a gold ring on the finger paralyses a women from the waist down.
2007-02-08 04:35:03 · answer #7 · answered by Horizontal 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I have the same feeling, i guess u r not alone.....
2007-02-08 04:35:29 · answer #8 · answered by DON 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to get with it! WOW!!!! I could never go without it all
2007-02-08 04:34:48 · answer #9 · answered by Ashy B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋