Dear Name,You have 3 days to leave,take care of your health and enjoy a happy life. It seems what we talked about on internet are only lies. Not on my part.I don't mean you are bad. You been good in college and now also. We are not dangerous people.
You were right when you brought your wife to the lunch on Monday. It proves your sincere mentality. Anybody else comes only after your wife.But I thought we shoud meet specially as you would be leaving for US, as you are the only man in my heart. I will not try to dominate your wife as she was with through you thick and thin. Only that I want to be your friend as well. Though I am sincere and disciplined, I have become this because your phone call two years back when I was depressed gave me lot of strenght. I contacted you on mail after one year. What happened later is known to you and me
I never experienced the love, affection and security in my life as I did in your friendship that is when we met in(contd)
2007-02-07 20:19:20 · 6 answers · asked by havah 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
in the resort. I always wanted to be a caretaker for my family but now i am depressed and low. It may take another year for me to come there, I don't know whethr I can live that long. How could you and your wife live seperately for seven years? It makes me feel bad. But you two can talk on phone and net without fear unlike me who is always afraid. I don't mean you will not be angry with me when we live together, but there is love and responsibilty in it. It is 4AM. I go on writing like this. Try to understand and do not forget,please.with love&love&love Name who needs you a lot. I never wrote this deep to anybody previously
2007-02-07 20:20:47 · update #1
OK, let me get this straight: The person who is writing is in love with a man who brought his wife to their meeting? Wow. The person who wrote needs to get it into her head that there is no future with this guy, because he's married, even though he might be very supportive through email. She should not move to be with him. It doesn't matter if he says he's been separated for seven years, if he's bringing his wife, that says everything. The person who wrote has been living a fantasy life through this guy and needs to end it. She needs to find real-life friends who can be there and meet, don't keep imagining your happiness through this guy, he can't deliver it.
The fact that she says "three days to leave" probably means that she intends to end the email relationship, but it could mean she intends to kill him in three days. However, she also says, "We are not dangerous people" so maybe she does not intend anything. Also, it could mean that he is leaving for the US in three days.
This person sounds really scary. They should end the email relationship and not plan on being together, in my opinion.
Oh, I just read your other question, and it's YOUR wife who wrote this letter. Then, I will say that she was, six months' ago, looking for romance and happiness with someone else. However, I think that you have the opportunity to become the man she fantasizes about, if you are willing to try. It means that you stop being jealous over this guy and start figuring out ways to be romantic to your wife. Think of it as a competition. Think about ways to help your wife be happy. What could you do that would help? Romance her as if it's the start of your relationship again. This letter was six months' ago, you have the chance for a new beginning.
2007-02-07 20:38:26 · answer #1 · answered by Katherine W 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds as if she is looking for more from him, but he is married, and the man may be leading her on and giving her false hope. he has her heart and she expects one day to be with this man.
2007-02-08 08:01:33 · answer #2 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is her fantasy if you intend to stay with your wife. Stop leading her on.
2007-02-08 04:37:24 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mental case
2007-02-08 04:44:49 · answer #4 · answered by -------- 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
joker smoker and midnight toker
2007-02-08 04:25:57 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
no
2007-02-08 04:24:35 · answer #6 · answered by Nicole 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋