i m isha. i love raman.but i want to live with him only..not with his family.bcos i think they wont love me as we will do love marriage n my parents wont give anything in marriage to raman's parents..i dont want to listen anything against my parents in future..should i live with his parents or not?
2007-02-07 20:17:20 · 9 answers · asked by isha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
FIRST OF ALL THIS THINGS YOU FIX WITH RAMAN AFTER HAVING DISCUSION ON ALL THE NEGTIVES AND POSITIVES IF HE SAYS THAT HIS PARENTS ACCEPT YOU WITH GRACE THEN THERE IS NO PROBLEM TO LIVE IN JOINT FAMILY OTHERWISE ALL THE WAYS ARE OPEN FOR YOU AND YOUR WOULD BE HUSBAND.
2007-02-10 23:32:40 · answer #1 · answered by RAMAN IOBIAN 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Certainly, and prove to them how good you are and worth all the money in gold. Once they realise this they will stop criticising your parents for the material gifts.This will also make Raman love you even more and don't you realise the dividend it is going to pay you in the long run if you stay with them together as a family. If you are working and when you have your own children they will prove to be the best companions for them.
2007-02-07 21:04:55 · answer #2 · answered by mcmohan40 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When his parents are against this marriage then no doubt they will harm u in one way or the other. Moreover thou u plan to live seprately, would raman is ready to leave his parents as u r not ready to listen against ur parents similarly he will also be not ready to listen against his parents and they has bloodrelation with each other. May be after marriage, they may create such problems which will make ur life a hell as u will be taking their son away from them.
THINK OVER IT. ALL THE BEST.
2007-02-07 20:30:24 · answer #3 · answered by sweetie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really love RAMAN do marry him. Don't care about others.
And one thing most important is his parents seem to be money-lovers. Don't make a fun of your life. Leave his parents and live with your love in your dream house. If now his parents donot love u donot think they would be able to like u in future.
2007-02-07 21:55:18 · answer #4 · answered by Smilie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i will say, if you love him you must learn loving everything he has or he loves,that's the rule of love.
and tell your raman to make the decision, you are his responsibility and even is parents are his responsibility.
DON'T think bad before you face it,if you start loving them i m sure they will except you,may be not now but latter.
2007-02-07 20:39:26 · answer #5 · answered by sam 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
c isha gettin a true luv is very hard to find n u r lucky if u have it.
if ur luv is true n the boy also luvs u equally thn dnt listen to ne1 n do revolt.
one thng wich i want to tl u is dat its imposbl to forget ur 1st luv .n u vl hve to regret for dis for the whole life.go n marry.
2007-02-07 20:41:08 · answer #6 · answered by varun j 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We should live on our own but must still take care of our old parents or inlaws. They have given us so much of theur sweat and blood to get us to the point where we are today. It is ok to live away but it is not ok to ignore them and we should support them in their need.
2007-02-07 20:28:00 · answer #7 · answered by nice guy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how greedy you are.
2007-02-11 13:52:41 · answer #8 · answered by Best Answer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
grooms house will be a hell for you
2007-02-07 22:43:33 · answer #9 · answered by keral 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋