or would you not. This is with you not knowing they were HIV + and then falling in love with them and then they tell you.
2007-02-07 18:27:41 · 19 answers · asked by thefinalresult 7 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
sorry... hiv I fall back outta love...sorry!!!
2007-02-07 18:34:14 · answer #1 · answered by doctorhector 3 · 5⤊ 4⤋
No. The risks are too great and the two of you might not work out long term. You can be friends though, stay in this person's life, there are lots of healthy people out there. Many people make the mistake of letting their emotions take over where their brains should be, but lots of those people just get the clap or something. HIV can end your life and it is a devistatingly crippling disease that you can't get rid of. One of my mother's friends died of it a few years back, he was in so much agony. Don't do this to yourself or to your family cause they will suffer too if you contracted it.
2007-02-08 08:49:11 · answer #2 · answered by Annabella Stephens 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I would. I know that there are couples where both do not have HIV. This is assuming that I was told about the HIV before we had sex.
2007-02-08 02:36:22 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I would, so long as they told me about their HIV status before we had sex. With proper protection, there's little chance of the disease being passed. And as for the actual illness, everyone's dying, just some more quickly than others. Also, nothing's certain. I could get hit by a car tomorrow, or die a hundred years from now.
Anyways, I would have sex with them, and I would still love him/her.
2007-02-08 02:33:20 · answer #4 · answered by me41987 4 · 4⤊ 1⤋
I always promised myself no until that was who I fell in love with. Then, we just took "safer sex" precautions and still had lots of fun. He's been gone 10 years and I'm still HIV -.
2007-02-08 02:35:29 · answer #5 · answered by AdamKadmon 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋
I considered this and was researching my options for protecting myself should our relationship develop. I respected him for letting me know. What I thought was all relationships have problems that have to be dealt with if both people are willing.
He started feeling real bad for himself, which I can understand, but then he started drinking alcohol everyday from the moment he woke up. I couldn’t deal with alcoholism and distance myself.
Like anything omission is deceit with the attempt to manipulate a situation that could affect your life. A person who is that selfish will always think of themselves first and has no qualms with using deceit to get their way.
You also have to think if you are young are you strong enough and prepared to go through the necessary changes for caring for someone if it develops into AIDs.
2007-02-08 03:30:20 · answer #6 · answered by Tricia C 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, if they don't tell you until AFTER you become emotionally involved that would seem more like a scheme to get you hooked and not want to quit being with them. That kind of person cannot be trusted. They should tell you when you first begin dating if they are looking for a steady relationship and give you the option of staying or going. Truth is the strongest foundation for any relationship no matter what the issue might be.
2007-02-08 02:32:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
If I was married to them, then yes. No marriage, no sex.
Having HIV doesn't matter..........maybe you'll get it, maybe you won't if you use a condom EVERYTIME. But sex isn't the only way to get HIV.
Sex is a values based thing for me. If my husband aquired HIV, yes I'd still have sex with him. But I wouldn't have children.
Whatever your choice is, good luck. It isn't an easy one.
2007-02-08 04:34:13 · answer #8 · answered by Mrs.Fine 5 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I would get medical advice and take the best precautions possible against infection. If you love someone and you want the relationship to become sexual it is the only way.
2007-02-08 02:34:01 · answer #9 · answered by John B 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
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2014-07-19 07:36:43 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm... tough one. But I guess if I was really in love with that person, then I would do it. But with all precautionary measures.
2007-02-08 02:34:54 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋