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okay

we were eating lunch, with little conversation, she is a good friend of mine, and she knows i have a crush on her, and she is totally cool with that cause she sort of likes me too - that’s what she said

now, the prob. is

we were eating lunch after a game of golf, and she was sitting facing the green, she was just about done with luch, but then, while looking at the green, she said, she has to go

n i said why - has ur dad come? she said no, i will see ya later, byee

and ran fast - very fast, out of the club, and into her car

1 min later she sent me a sms saying

'sorry, i had to leave, or things would have got complicated'

I said ' could u please emplain further?'

she said, I am sorry, its just that I had to run before someone saw me


and that’s all it as,

I have not spoke to her after, but can someone please tell me whats up.... whats going on??



please help

thanks

2007-02-07 18:21:48 · 15 answers · asked by Jim 1 in Social Science Psychology

15 answers

I have many times in my life run across a person at the store or somewhere in public that I did not wish to confront at the moment. I would go down the next isle or turn around and pretend not to see them. In this situation she may have seen some one who would have reacted when they saw her with you. Or maybe just someone that she did now wish to have a confrontation with. I would just let it go until later. Some day she will explain to you

2007-02-07 18:31:00 · answer #1 · answered by dkf2222 2 · 1 0

Hey! Hey!
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That is all part of the mating game|

Sometimes a woman will suddenly withdraw like that in the relationship|

She hasn't rejected you, but will suddenly create some space because she feels you are getting too close, too fast|

It is sort of a test to see you you will handle it|

Just approach her gently again when the time is right|

She will come together with you again, and then - suddenly - do the same thing again - take off|

Just continue the persuit though, you two are meant for each other|




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2007-02-08 02:38:47 · answer #2 · answered by Catholic Philosopher 6 · 0 0

this is just a probably - - -
she was afraid that if she stayed with you for any more time she would have done something she would have regretted later...
kissing you
grabbing you
rubbing up against you
rubbing your butt
she didnt wanna do something that could have come back later on and haunted her..
meaning she didnt want anyone to see her and take it the wrong way and then later on throw it in her face...
like i said, this is just a maybe..
i would defintely co nfront her with it.. whether in a letter or in person..
dont let it eat ya..
yer too special for that...

2007-02-08 02:31:17 · answer #3 · answered by short fat white girl 3 · 0 0

Excuse June. She's just a troll spreading hate all over YA.
Your friend might have seen someone she didn't want to interact with. She could have been trying to avoid a confrontation.

2007-02-08 07:08:14 · answer #4 · answered by Eat At The Y 4 · 0 0

How long have you known this girl? She might be in a relationship and was about to get busted. Or maybe she likes you but can't get into a relationship at the moment or maybe she is just a strange one.

2007-02-08 02:33:01 · answer #5 · answered by biancajh 5 · 0 0

She probably saw someone she was trying to avoid, an ex boyfriend or a friend. Either way I doubt that she meant to do that on purpose.

2007-02-08 02:35:09 · answer #6 · answered by Lisaa 2 · 0 0

well maybe it felt wierd when she actually admitted to having feelings for you. and it might be kind of akward if she would have stayed or she also may have feelings for someone else and didn't want to be seen with u. but i think the first answer it probably better. so don't think to much on it she'll come around

2007-02-08 02:31:30 · answer #7 · answered by jasmine c 2 · 0 0

First how old are you? Second does her dad not like you? You are her friend she is afraid that if you become more then break up she will lose you! Take it from a women! Do you know if some one is stalking her??

2007-02-08 02:34:04 · answer #8 · answered by Barbara 4 · 0 0

She saw someone that she wanted to avoid.
It was too complicated to stay and make a simple meeting a confrontation.

2007-02-08 11:38:07 · answer #9 · answered by starrdevine 6 · 0 0

Maybe she saw someone that she's kind of dating or someone that she likes and doesn't want the other person to think that she's with you.

2007-02-08 02:56:43 · answer #10 · answered by valbee 3 · 0 0

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