i been with my girlfriend for 1 and a half year she was my 1st love now seems like she wants to move on.?

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i been with my girlfriend for 1 and a half year she was my 1st love now seems like she wants to move on. i wish i can move on, becoz it really breaks my heart nd hurts me inside a lot, after a 1and a half year relationship shes been acting strange, shes telling me i need a man tht is smarter thn me nd other stuff, when she sed dat i felt very sad nd it kicked in my heart becoz she never sed something tht would hurt me, we did broke up 4 times b4 it wasnt really our fault it was the timing nd distance so yah, i really love her nd it seems like tht i cant never move on, now dayz she stoped calling md nd iming, she tells me she needs to focus more on her studys nd blah blah i understand but it tells me tht shes lossing interest in me nd it really breaks my heart apart it hurts so much tht it makes me cry nd cryyyyy. im losing hope, i was very strong b4 but now it weakends my haert becoz she contacts me less thn b4 nd shes my 1st love I DONT WANT TO LOSE HER. thanks for the help guys

Answer 1

She has most likely met someone else. There is nothing you can do to keep her if she wants to move on. It is going to be painful, but time will make it less painful. Eventually you will meet someone else too. However, you will probably always have feelings for your first love. If you were her first love, she will probably always have feeling for you too. Some day, years from now, the two of you may look for eachother again. But for now, say goodbye and heal your heart. Plus, if she has started saying cruel things to you, you do not want it to get to a point where you hate eachother.

Answer 2

Me, me, me, me, me, me.
It takes two to have a relationship man. If she is ready to move on then I would hope that you care enough about her to not try to stand in her way no matter how much it hurts to lose the affection of someone you think you love.
She has a mind of her own, & she's the only one who can change it one way or the other.
You can't force her to stay with you, & how happy would it make you if it turned out that you did?

Sorry to be so hard on you, but you are wallowing in a big pity party at the moment. I think you need a wake-up call so you can start to heal the emotional burns that you are feeling right now.
You'll get over it, so suck it up.

If it's time to move on, then there's nothing more to it.

Answer 3

Face it, she is dumping you...love hurts, and it won't be the last time. You need to move on. The best thing you can do if you really care for the girl is just move on. Try to better yourself for yourself and if at some point down the road she notices and wants to be a part of your life again, then great, if not you will be in a better position for yourself to move forward in your life. If you are old enough to drink I would get a bottle of brown whiskey and drink yourself silly for several nights in a row, get all your crying done and then pick up the pieces and move on. Time heals all wounds and wounds all heels. BTW you write horribly, get it together dude.

Answer 4

love is some special feeling that happen between 2 individual... if onside down, no matter how hard u try to keep on one handed, the effect won't be good, sometimes just worse...

y dun just think positively like, someone you care for getting a happier, and better life?

Answer 5

i know that it hard to let go of someone that you have loved, especially your first love,but you need to let go and move on
iit will be hard at first but you will see that life does goe on,
you just need to take it one day at at time and then you will see'
that there is a silver lining at the end of the road. dont give
up. stay strong things will get better good luck to you.

Answer 6

did you even try to talk to her reason it out. find out whats the problem and how can you fix it... or telling her you really is truly in love with her and you don't want to lose. have a sitt down and talk about the stuff that's been going on. or you can try talking with her on the phone if it don't work out theirs other fish in the sea i think you know with that mean.

good luck buddy!!!

Answer 7

I'm so, so, sorry for your pain. I know its dreadful. Please don't blame yourself, but she is gone. I know, it hurts. But she's not the right one for you. Please try to not be sad. She could have been a lot classier about this. She's low class dude. Find a nice girl.

Answer 8

MOVE On!!
You dont need someone who dont what you!!