My wife want sapration but i canot live with out her what can i do?

Question

hi i am a 11 years married man and i have one baby 5years old but when i was in dubay my wife falon love on other man now she want sapration from please can you squgest me what can i do i did everything i told her please and many thank but i fail in this for patchup i give her lots of love my all earning money everything now i donot have single pi

Answer 1

find a lawyer, you cannot make a marriage work by yourself. i'm sorry. be strong for your child.

Answer 2

Well, if you've tried everything already and she still wants to be w/the other man, you'll have to live with it and move on. you should be getting therapy atleast individually to help you move on. You can do it. But also treat urself to lots of massages, exercise and attend group meetings w/people who are going thru the same thing as you so you can connect w/others, not feel alone and take the steps needed for your future. you'll meet someone new, exciting and who loves you the way you deserve to be loved and cared for. You'll always love her, and she'll always love you. But there will come a time when you'll definately fall in love again and it will be wonderful for you. hard to see that right now I know, but it'll happen. Just wait and see.......
If she doesn't make the effort you need to preserve your love for a woman who can appreciate it. And I know you will too. You deserve more, you know that?

Answer 3

You can not force someone to love you. You need to let her go. She has the right to find her happiness and if you love her then you will let her be happpy. Sorry dude been there done that and it does not work. The two of you will be miserable and your child will pray you will seperate. Also I don't want you to do something stupid, please go to a friend's or family and stay there because I would feel guilty if you did the wrong thing and cause more harm than good. Do it until she leaves.

Answer 4

there is nothing u can do, set her free, u can survive this, hard at first to do but know that it does take time to even face. you have done nothing wrong here, it is all her. right now the more u say the worse it is, she will not be open to any kind of talk about reconciliation at this time just tell her she is free to go and good luck in life. it is just not worth it emotionally to try to stop someone from doing something they are hell bent on doing. sure it hurts your ego, and makes u feel unloved but it is how we handle the hurt that matters, don't let this steal your joy, grieve it and get past it. know that things all have a reason for happening reasons we don't know about that only god knows. but if someone doesn't want us we need to distance ourselves from that person, and set them free as if they don't love us we have nothing anyway.

Answer 5

A relationship built from respect and understanding. I saw that she doesn't has both. But try once more for the sake of your self n especially your kid,there is no loss. If she chose your family n leave that man,forgive her.
But when she keep stand on her decision, it will better for you to let her go.. U can not live with her as u own her body but not her mind,her soul n her love.
Forgive "her fault" or forget "her" completely, n start a better life...

Good luck

Answer 6

Well man you are in trouble. In my opinion, even if you get her to live with you still you wont be able to forget what she has done. So every now and then you will be quarelling and her previous behaviour will be stabbing in your mind. It is a very very hard thing to accept but for yours and your kid's future peaceful life its very necessary. You wont realize it now but after a while you will understand. Also what good will she be to you when she loves someone else? I am really sorry if I sound harsh but its the truth.

I would be glad to help you further in this regard. so feel free to ask.

Answer 7

Let her go...If she doesn't want to stay then let her go...Once she is away and finds out that it wasn't what she expected then she may come back, but if she is leaving for reason that we don't know then maybe you should move on. Find someone who will love you back. If you are a good man like you say you are than you should have know problem finding another love. It may just be what you needed.

Answer 8

OMG...no offense but maybe she wants a separation just from the lack of intelligence. I am not trying to be mean but I would not last even a month with someone who has the grammar, speech and spelling you do. Let her go, maybe she needs some freedom, if she comes back great....dont give her the world when she doesnt even want it from you because your playing the fool and she is taking advantage of you with no intent on reciprocating.

Answer 9

From what you said, she won't come back unless the other guy dumps her. Right now, her opinion of you is very low no matter what you do. You should take action to protect your own interest and since she is committing adultery, file for custody of your child. Not much you can do right now. Maybe you will decide you don't want her back anyway after a while.

Answer 10

Relations are never developed by giving ur earnings.Any relation exists only when its from both sides.U cannot beg to have arelation or continue a relations.So if ur wife does not wants so let her go.If there is no LOVE there is no need to carry on any relation.

Answer 11

I hate to tell you this but there is nothing you can do but let her go. It hurts but it's really the only thing you can do. If you really want to wait around for awhile you could, maybe they will split up or something, but I wouldn't count on it. Dont give her anymore money.