Do you start to lose interest in sex as you get older?

Question

My girl and I have been together for more than a year. I am 23 and she is 35. I'm a sexual person and she just doesn't seem so into it these days. Is it because she is tired from work or is it because she is older?

Answer 1

An adult's life has many components, including making a living. The sexual drive of each gender peaks differently so women's drive goes into their 40s while men's drive peaks before 30.

Stress from work and family matters also distracts a person. Anyone who works long hours and comes home tired, it's hard. It is known that exercise relieves some stress and helps a person regain the sex hormones.

A lot of science studies in this subject.

Answer 2

A woman peak at around 35 ( I know I do). Probably she's tired from work. Talk to her frankly about this and see what she has to say. There was a time, I lost interest in sex with my husband because he was not as good in bed as before. Now, it's been settled and we are like newlyweds again.

Answer 3

it all depends on the person. some people just have that high sex drive even when thy get older. most ever relationship u start out in it's sex all the time. then it really dont matter any more. it could be shes tried from work. but she could be having problems. which alot of older women start to get. and its stuff u wouldnt understand and know how shes feeling but she should tell u anything if there is a problem. have you talked to her about it? you need to talk to her and ask and tell her how u feel. u both need a understanding. i myself is a sexual person. but my husband really aint. it's hard on me. i had talk to him about a couple of times and now he kinda understanding what it makes me feel. older peopl can really surpise u on that. but the could be a number of things. but the only way your going to find anything out is to ask.

Answer 4

35 Dude she is in her prime peak years , Unless she suffers from depression like borderline personality disorder (as mine does) which would cause her to lose her drive . I would ...
1- get a back brace
2-get her some lady viagra
3- hold on for the whoopin of a life time

It worked for me

Answer 5

its just depend on the physical & mental level of satisfaction.as we get older we are not mentally satisfied because of our work and other responsibilities. and its obvious that we loose interest in sex after having sex many times.Couples do sex more in the first year after marriage than the whole life.

Answer 6

maybe she is just tired of you

i heard that women get more interested in sex when they get older and hit their peak right around 35 or so

Answer 7

women generally hit their sexual peak at 30 - 35. maybe she's fighting some depression or just a lot of stress. could be a lot of reasons (or no reason at all). be patient.

Answer 8

As you get older energy is precious,but I don't think the interest is any less,but maybe that energy level,as the two of you age,that 12 years will separate you more and more !!

Answer 9

dont think its cause she's older must be another reason.. i'm 41 and my boyfriend would probably agree that mine has gotten alot more in the last 2 yrs that he's known me and it actualy got more interesting and wanting when i turned 35..

Answer 10

OMG, get older!! wtf!! im 36 and no no nonnononononno i have not lost interest.... the only time i did lose interest was when it was awful and not worth any attemp to fake it or do it just to make him happy.. i wonder if thats the problem she's having.... women get better with age dearheart, now i have to go and take my heart, blood pressure, and other "old people" medications.