If ur wife or husband had more sex partners in her/his ex relationships... Do u think it somehow bothers you? Coz when my hubby and me were having our friendly discussion...& we realised that both of us will not be able to accept it..
2007-02-07 15:38:26 · 7 answers · asked by sUnseT 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
yeah its always hard to swallow....i guess we all wish we could be our lovers "first and only"..of course its soooooo not that way. but i jus remind myself the past is the past and my love for him is way stronger than my hate of his past sex life
2007-02-07 15:41:59 · answer #1 · answered by true22enigma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like one or both of you two threw out the best and settled for the rest.
That's really sad. Have either of you ever considered that the old loves were the loosers on both sides. If either of you wanted an old flame wouldn't you be looking for it. Or did both of you really settle for second best???
If there are no STD or they have been treated, then what is the problem???
2007-02-07 23:53:15 · answer #2 · answered by gimpalomg 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It only bothers me if my husband would dishonest about that, and dishonest if he ever "sees" the people still,etc.
My husband was married once, and only has been with one person when he met me, and I had dated aLOT but was a virgin still when I met my husband.And our situation is a bit more turned around...he wants us to have "experiances". Which I am open to, but some people in this situation would SO not go for it.
So you got it easy,girl !
2007-02-07 23:46:04 · answer #3 · answered by Lauran B. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In our marriage that is the past and that is where it stays. he knows i have haad some but i was married twice before meeting him too. My first husband died and my second husband abandoned me. I also have been with others but now that i am married to this guy HE is my only one and he knows it and I am his only one as it should be:) Also if this really bothers you and you cannot get past it why would you marry that person to begin with?
2007-02-08 00:00:26 · answer #4 · answered by Lady Hewitt 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what's wrong with having more sex partners before you're hubby? that was the BEFORE, what should bother you is that if you're hubby has a lot of sex partners NOW that you are married!
2007-02-08 00:23:27 · answer #5 · answered by majal_lu 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The past is history...unless you still have a std from a past partner. What is it a competition? I would hope both of you are broken in so to speak.
2007-02-07 23:42:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you married him without knowing his past and he married you without knowing your past?
thats interesting, but still, it is the past, should it matter?
2007-02-08 00:19:48 · answer #7 · answered by zether 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋