Ok been happily married 16 yrs but for yrs it seemed like i had a higher sex drive then husband but for the last yr his sex drive has seemed to gotten higher and wants to do it more..this is NOT a problem BUT a BLESSING. Last night he said he wanted to start giving me oral which he has never done before(This has never bothered me cause he totally satisfies me during sex)He said he has been wanting to do this for awhile but didnt know how i would feel about it..So my question is what could have brought on this WONDERFUL change and NO im not complaining just wondering that all..I love giving him oral..By the way he is 42
2007-02-07 15:29:03 · 1 answers · asked by sally d 1 in Health ➔ Men's Health
if you have been providing him and he not been providing you with oral my first guess would be that he just had to overcome a number of negative ideas and thoughts about it.
if he has been so reserved and just now breaking out of it, perhaps you can enhance his opening up by being more assertive (after he initiates, if that was part of the issue) or wearing some of the fantasy stuff - like french maid, stuff at spencers gifts or you can get 'em online.
I would also very strongly suggest that you simply talk to him about it. Encourage him to not be so reserved. I would not relay to him that you brought this issue to this forum. Encourage him that he can share with you all his desires and fantasies, that you love him and want him to want you. when he does reward him to train him to open up and talk about it.
2007-02-08 06:05:47 · answer #1 · answered by dharp66 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋