she and i have been best friends forever but lately when i try to get together she seems to always have something going on. i get many e-mails about making time for those who are important...don't let them get away. she really has been there for me but i don't understand that she never has time to get together. any ideas?
2007-02-07 15:10:11 · 7 answers · asked by cindy p 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Some people just don't feel the need to get together. Casual updates with Chritmas Cards, emails, etc. are enough. It doesn't mean she doesn't still consider you a friend....just doesn't need to be social. 30 years is a long time. Sounds like you've grown apart. And that's OK!
2007-02-07 15:18:25 · answer #1 · answered by iwonder 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta try to understand her. There must be a reason why she does not want to talk to you or she may be really busy. Just let her know that you're the best friend and you put confidence in what your friend said. She'll probably want to have a chat with you someday.
2007-02-07 15:31:12 · answer #2 · answered by hopman_gibbons 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would bet you that her life is very, very busy right now and it is difficult to find time to unwind with even old and best friends. If you are truly her friend, you will wait until she needs to see you.
I have actually ceased being friends with certain people through the years because our interests changed, our lives were full of different types of stressors, and, in one instance, because I was simply worn out from supporting a long-time friend through another on-going role of drama queen.
2007-02-07 15:26:59 · answer #3 · answered by Lois M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she is just really busy. I get that from my friends all the time. The hours just seem to slip away sometimes.
2007-02-07 15:28:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave her alone. You might be annoying, just let her get ahold of you. and don't worry, it might take a while but she will eventually, if your not a jerk lol.
2007-02-07 15:13:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She has moved on and maybe has got no time for you.
2007-02-07 15:31:59 · answer #6 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
great answer lucifer
2007-02-07 15:17:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋