Ok , husband had viagra,,,, tells me that he doesnt care for the way viagra makes him feel the morning after(?) informed me he is giving them to an business associate. this is after having used 6 of the 10 with me. He is also going on a business trip to florida . Comes home and tells the story of giving them to his "friend" around four different times, a real over kill don't ya think? The following day i see him in the closet messing in his then emptied suitcase. He didn't see me doing this. After he left i dug in the suitcase and there was a piece of paper crumbled up and guess what baby blue sat in it? Yep a Viagra! Na i cant imagine he saved that for me, he has now gone back on another trip to florida with his little secret! Is this the writing on the wall? Help me!
2007-02-07 15:06:50 · 11 answers · asked by fedup 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
respect his privacy...youve been helped.
2007-02-07 15:10:44 · answer #1 · answered by Mr. Sir 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Sounds like he is messing around. Gave the pills to a friend? Come on were you born yesterday? Dump the impitant bastard and find a man that could get it up and who is not a cheater. Good luck.
2007-02-07 15:25:31 · answer #2 · answered by mom of twins 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Medicines shud be taken to cure and not on regular basis.
Secondly ur problem is of doubt and suspicion. If he wants to cheat on u by using viagra for some one else, what prevents him from buying additional quantities w/o knowledge.
2007-02-07 15:15:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your Husband is definitely cheating on you! Who must be the lucky girl! He is using it on somebodyelse and is just telling you that story to look like as if he is being honest with you when in fact he's using it on somebody elses!
What a slap on the face galfriend! You must be boring in bed and he's found that affection somewherelse because if you want to keep him, the three things in life that matters to men are, rest, sex and food!
2007-02-07 15:17:57 · answer #4 · answered by Ian Smith 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
GIRL!
I hate that you already know the answer to this question. This just sucks. You already know what he is doing...I am sure you are just looking for some of us to confirm your suspicions...this is not just writing on the wall it's a flippin' billboard! I truly feel for you.
2007-02-07 15:13:27 · answer #5 · answered by Alauria B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like he has something to hide. If I were you I'd come right out and ask him. If you still think he sounds suspicious you will know it's the writing on the wall. Best of luck to you.
2007-02-07 15:18:24 · answer #6 · answered by pookie 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Oh yes dear.
I would have taken that pill and put a laxitive in its place.
That would have been a "sign" that you know the "score" and he isn't welcome anymore.
I call all the time, when my husband travels and get the room information, I have called at all hours, to say I love you. So you can tell- whats up.
Don't play the fool. Get to a new man that doesn't need a blue pill to please you!
2007-02-07 15:16:52 · answer #7 · answered by Denise W 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
I hate to say it but yeah your right. Next time he does this color a tic tac with a blue marker and wrap it in divorce papers!
2007-02-07 15:26:14 · answer #8 · answered by Destiny 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I bet he is having too much fun beside with you...
its all abt that Viagra....
2007-02-07 15:20:55 · answer #9 · answered by DON 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what an ***...screw his privacy, you have a right to know!! I say have it out with him...hes acting sketchy so its not as if your just being paranoid!!
good luck, i really hope it works out for you!! :-)
2007-02-07 15:15:59 · answer #10 · answered by sabina 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
When a husband doesn't want sex with his wife, he wants it with someone else.... it's a no-brainer, hon, he has a girlfriend....
2007-02-07 15:34:17 · answer #11 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋