if so what does it feel like, is it pleasurable? i ask this seriously b/c for the first time I am with someone with whom I'm having sex w/o a condom. It feels wonderful for me both physically and to know we have that level of trust. I'm dying to know, though (and am too shy to ask :-) if she feels it when I climax? I hope so and that she enjoys it!
2007-02-07 14:55:49 · 14 answers · asked by F.B. 3 in Health ➔ Women's Health
to luvmykids--yes we always take care of her at least once manually prior to any penetration. we're also working on, with her on top, providing her with the manual stimulation (sometimes I do it, sometimes she does) to try and have her climax first even during the sex. Haven't gotten there yet but very close on several tries. In fact I want to experience the corollary--what it's like to be in her when she climaxes :-). Besides I've heard some women really enjoy having a man's member to grip or squeeze down on when the contractions are happening down there (anyone care to comment on that, actually?)
2007-02-07 15:16:30 · update #1
sweetstylin--touche, i suppose you have a point :-)...I just wanted to get some input here first if I was totally off-base, etc. Figured an (admittedly unscientific ;-) survey of what it feels like would be useful!
2007-02-07 15:18:38 · update #2
Yes, I can. It feels very good. I can feel the pleasurable wave coursing through his body. It feels even better when I orgasm while he's pumping into my body and then he finishes off inside me. All this talk is getting me all hot!
2007-02-07 15:34:24 · answer #1 · answered by Isabelle 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I cannot feel the ejaculation but sometimes I do feel the penis muscles contracting. I think I cant feel the ejaculation because my boyfriend's doesnt really shoot out far, it more or less oozes out. (lol sorry if its too graphic) anyway he usually tells me when hes going to and of course he picks up speed and all that, which is the pleasurable part for me. =)
2007-02-07 17:09:57 · answer #2 · answered by AV 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can only speak for myself and the answer is no..I mean you cannot actually feel the man ejaculating. You can tell my body movement, speed, and other signs though that he has reached climax. Make sure that you are taking the time for her...and that she has an orgasm before you or at the same time. Have fun!
2007-02-07 15:07:56 · answer #3 · answered by luvmykids 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
in reading the answers, this seems to be based on the individual. some here are saying no. i can definitely feel it, and yes, its pleasurable, but more in a sense of knowing you made your partner happy
2007-02-07 15:44:13 · answer #4 · answered by sita 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
it fells good and wierd all at once. its like a gush of water. we can aslo feel when a man climaxes its a great rush
2007-02-15 13:25:02 · answer #5 · answered by michele t 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes if you know your partner well enough and have been together long enough you can tell you can feel it. It's physical but it's also a spiritual thing for me.
2007-02-15 13:48:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
oh, yes Fred b.==i can definately feel my man ejaculate inside of me when it happens and i lay there and feel his throbbing member inside during ejaculation....i can always tell when he is close.....we know each others bodies so well that when we make love we just know when it will happen and it feels sooooo good and so right.....we've been together for 21 years so we know each others bodies pretty well by this time...and he is the cream of the crop when it comes to lovemaking.....hot damn!!!!
2007-02-07 20:57:49 · answer #7 · answered by sweetness #1 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
at times they do feel when a man climaxes i do sometimes and to my point of veiw it feels wonderful
2007-02-12 07:11:03 · answer #8 · answered by Lamoya 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I can definately feel when my husband does. Yes it is pleasurable, yet unexplainable.
2007-02-07 15:01:50 · answer #9 · answered by Mrs Baker 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i never felt it when my boyfriend finished in me but i knew when he did because the way he changes his speed and other stuff too but the thing that you should be thinking is to make her have an orgasm because coming in her doesnt really make a difference its what feels good during the intercourse but good luck and make her feel good while having sex not when your done (she cant feel it)
2007-02-07 15:03:10 · answer #10 · answered by jessica p 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋