I admit, I have my stupid moments, but I'm tired of my friends making fun of me because of my hair color. I'll often hear, in a joking manner, "Jeez, you're slow." or similar. I love my friends, they're the best, but I hate it when they do that to me.
2007-02-07 14:38:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Stop responding to it. Whenever they make reference to your intelligence in relation to your hair color pretend you didn't even hear that part of the conversation. Don't laugh. Don't smile. Just change the subject. They'll catch on if they are not dumb brunettes!
2007-02-07 14:43:44 · answer #1 · answered by amazingly intelligent 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like your friend is a little insecure. Often, when someone is insecure, an easy way to deal with it is to try to make those around them insecure as well. Screaming that you are smarter than her may not help the situation but you could let her know that you don't appreciate being called "dumb" by a friend. Let her know it hurts and insults you. A true friend should find this reason enough to stop the name calling. If it isn't, reconsider the friendship. Someone who brings you down with negativity is not a healthy person to have around. Until she gains more confidence in herself and learns to treat you with a little more respect... you may want to find another person to spend your time with.
2016-05-24 05:20:59 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you sure that true friends would tease you like that? ok be the better person tell them to stop being immature and start using some manners or you can just tell them that they're jelous cuz your blonde
2007-02-07 14:43:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way I look at it, there are 2 options -
1) dye it
-or-
2)shave it off
Just kidding, but really, nevermind what they say about blondes. Dont let it bother you
2007-02-07 14:43:16 · answer #4 · answered by Leo_Woman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My Suggestion is dye your hair , or wear a hat or maybe ur friends are just jealous of your hair
2007-02-07 14:43:11 · answer #5 · answered by babypimpette*inthehood 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well make comments back.i always got teased about being mixed, but then i would make funny things back at them like -at least all guys dig blond chicks look at you does any one even still have that color.they will Finley get the point and stop,
2007-02-07 14:45:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have you told them that it hurts you? Your friends are just ribbing you. True friends will stop if they know it hurts your feelings.
2007-02-07 14:42:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to change your hair color.. hehehe might work.
2007-02-07 14:49:05 · answer #8 · answered by kidrock33pa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dye your hair, or get smarter than them.
2007-02-07 14:42:09 · answer #9 · answered by Tiki™ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find new friends
2007-02-07 14:43:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋